I don't know what I am?

Question

I love my girlfriend more then anything, I'd never cheat on her but recently I've started looking at guys differently. I've always thought i was straight, I hate the thought of having s*x with a man but recently I've been looking at them the same way i look at women. I'm really confused, can your sexuality change? What's going on with me?

Thanks in advanced

Answer 1

Could it be jst a crush? Don't put a label on it. Just don't hurt your girlfriend.

Answer 2

No you aren't g*y you are not attracted to them, you don't want s*x with them rule it out YOU are not g*y.  

Answer 3

No, your sexuality absolutely cannot change.

HOWEVER, young men can sometimes successfully perform a temporary form of cognitive dissonance in which they manage to deceive themselves for a few years about what attracts them.  I do NOT know that is what is happening with you -- however, you note that you don't want to be g*y, so I do think that if you are young (late teens or very early 20s say) it might be that you viciously suppressed what you naturally prefer and it is finally breaking free.  Look back at your early teens -- did boys sometimes attract you and you fought it off, or "made it stop?"  If in fact that is true -- then it will break out eventually -- nothing will allow you to lie to yourself forever, although you can elect to live an unhappy lie for life as far as others are concerned if that's really what you want.

Kind thoughts,

Hermes

Answer 4

=$  maybe just bi http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind...

Answer 5

You are just nutz

It will pass in time.

Answer 6

hw old r u... peeps normally turn g*y wen they're young or bi if they feel curious.....

you could be bi-curious

Answer 7

I dont usually find men attractive but I enjoy having s*x with a man, whereas the sight of a beautiful woman makes me go weak at the knees even though it doesnt make me feel like jumping into bed with them. I know its really confusing isnt it? I havent figured myself out yet either.  

Answer 8

You may be bi-curious

Answer 9

ur bi-curious or bisexual

and u can't change ur sexuality