I don't know what im should do?

Question

Okay im a huge Christian and like my parents disagree with anything that resembles dark and well i was emo for about four year and now im a normal kid with all the same dark feelings and well i really like gothic stuff and i wanna be gothic but no one in my house agrees i don't wanna sit down and talk to them i just want someone to undertsand how i feel how do i do this with out anyone helping me my parents will not by me anything like that and im only 13 so i can't get a jod Please someone help

Answer 1

you need to learn how to incorporate fullstops in your "sentences"

Answer 2

You need to first spell correctly so we can understand you.

QUIT YOUR WHINING. You are too young to have all this emotional baggage. Just be happy, it doesn't take alot of work.

BE YOURSELF, even if it is gothic, as long as your happy it shouldn't matter who or what you are.

Answer 3

my advice is to first tell a friend and see if they can persuade your parents to let you be a goth. If they don't then you can try and tell your parents straight that that is who you are and it would mean alot to you if they would let you be a goth

Answer 4

Whenever I'm in a situation like this I stop everything and try to see things from the other side. From your parent's perspective they see their young daughterl suddenly withdrawing to her room and suddenly getting involved with all this dark drama. They love you and it concerns them. What you need to do is something to re-ensure them that you still love them, are part of the family and still want to be goth. You will need to make a choice here - isolation in your room OR goth. You say that you feel misunderstood, but they are probably feeling that you are out of touch with them as well.  Maybe it can be agreed to let you dress goth on weekends when you're out with friends or at a school dance - something like that and not all the time. When they see you are trying to compromise and be a part of the family, they may lighten up and realize you're just trying to find a form of self expression.  Good Luck!

Answer 5

Being Goth is totally independent from your religious beliefs unless you are praying to Satan, a dark overlord or Xenu.  Make a list of what what you find appealing about Goth and sit down and share it with your parents.  Explain that this is how you feel as a person, not as a religion.

Answer 6

That's a small thing.  Suck it up and wear whatever your parents think is appropriate.

Answer 7

well unfortuantely u live underneath your parents roof, there house there rules

i would talk to them and explain how u feel but if they say no..well u just gotta wait i guess or do it secretly