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I don't know what she's trying to say! what is it she's trying to tell me and what does she want, help please?

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ok me and my gf Anna were kinda half going out at first then we decided to call it off for a bit, then apparently she texted me a couple of times but i didn't get the texts, here's how the conversation went, and i'd appreciate it if you could tell me what you think she's trying to say and how she feels about it :)

“so I take it you’re going to be a k**b and just ignore me?” her

“Not at all why’d you think that?x” me

“cos you’re not replying to my txts” her

“oh ****, on my other phone? X” me

“on the phone you’re texting on now” her

“I DEFINITELY havn’t got any =/ x” me

“well I DEFINITELY sent it and it’s not like you’re dying to keep in contact” her

“I know and I’m sorry, I was just being dumb, that’s pretty much all I can say really, but I am sorry”me

“my bad you ok? X” (I accidently sent her a blank text instead of saying hi)

“why wouldn’t I be?” her

“just checkin’ didn’t know if you got my last text x” me

“saying you were being stupid? You may need to expand on that one for me” her

“I shlda tried to contact, that’s why” me

“why didn’t you?” her

“I wasn’t sure how you felt about it all” me

“well where do you stand?are you over me” her

“are you not?what?” her

“ I don’t see how it would work…you?” her

“I just remember how good it was, I don’t really know whare I stand, what about you” me

well…have you been getting with other ppl? her

“no.you?” me

“well why didn’t you?” her

“just didn’t feel for it. What about you?”me

“I did… Jason I really don’t want this to keep dragging on. What do YOU want to do?” her

“this is all just a waste of time really”me

“why do you always do that? You end it so I move on. If you don’t make me urs im not urs. So if it’s a waste of time then fine. **** it. I’m tired of your mood swings and changing your mind.” her

“I don’t really know how you feel about anything so I don’t really know what I want =/” me

“fine its over until you figure out if im worth anything anymore and if you even want it. Coz there is no point if you don’t even know how you feel.k?” her

“I need some time to think, how do you feel about us?” me

“how much time do you need! Its been months. Thinking isn’t going to change how you feel – even if you don’t know what it is you feel” her

“do you think I’m worth carrying on with?” me

“why don’t we just call this quits and call it friend” her

“if your getting off with guys does that mean you’r over me?” me

“im bored and tired of all this c**p and if we did go out I don’t think it would work out at all so it’s a lot of time and money over… nothing really” her

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  1. im bored and tired of all this c**p and if we did go out I don’t think it would work out at all so it’s a lot of time and money over… nothing really


  2. no ones gonna read all that

  3. She wants you to be honest and straight. She doesn't want to wait any longer. She feels like life is passing her by and that she has been waiting "months" now. You should make up your mind. Don't let het guess. Tell her how you feel - exactly! and then ask her what she thinks. Not ask her first. Be open and go straight to the whole point so that she can know what is going on and whether she should move on or not. Thats what I think anyways.

    Hope it helps.

    J!

  4. this has happened to me and my bf before...

    look

    all she need to know is that you love her... and that you're sorry... don't rush things and tell her that 'i'm stupid, i know and i'm sorry' or 'i don't know what i want anymore...' because that pretty much sounded like 'ok, i'm sorry already, can you just at least shut up and forget about it?'

    with how the conversation go, she's pretty much hurt... i know that you're honest about the text message and you didnt ignore her... but then, when a damage has been done, a girl speculates every possibility why you didnt reply... and when she gets a simple reason from you, it may be hard for her to believe it...

    and you might want to talk to her because, if she reacted this badly, there might be something that you might've done that hurt her before this happened...

    wanna know how to get her back?

    sweet simple things like flowers, surprises, explanation, dinner... simple things with effort can win her heart back... =)

    goodluck!

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