I don't know what this feeling is about my friend.?

Question

So, I'm a guy and my friend (he's guy) we got mad at each other, we haven't been talking for about a month or so. I left him alone for a couple weeks so maybe the situation would cool off and everything would go back to normal. I tried to talk to him again but he just ignores me all the time. The biggest issue is that I don't even know why am I like this just with him. I mean I just can't stop thinking about everything that has happen and I can't stop thinking about him. I tried to just get over him and leave it like that but I just can't. it seems like I needed him more than just a friend. I'm confused about this whole thing and it's breaking me up into pieces. Lately I feel like I miss him to much and I want him to be with me. Every time I look at him it just makes me want to go and give him a hug. I feel really confused and I don't want to think that I like him or anything like that but it's just I don't know. I think I somehow started to like him more than just a friend. What can I do? am I turning Bi ?

Answer 1

your not turning Bi. You are Bi.

you should try to find out how he fells about you.

but first try resolving your little problem, be friends with him again.

oh and if what I just said about you being Bi just scared you, then your not Bi. you just love your friend very much. thats what being a friend is all about.

Answer 2

If you are questioning your sexuality and are having those types of feelings about him, you most likely are bi-sexual. Which is great, it's always good to discover yourself and your true feelings. I suggest you experiment with these feelings to discover is they are true or not. And for the ex- friend i think it would be best to just move. He has obviously made the decision already to move on it would only make sense that you do to. I see this as a great opportunity to explore your emotions as well as with new people. This could be the beginning to a lot of happiness.

Answer 3

you might feel such because you have lost a dear friend and now going through a crisis of identity.do what is right because that is always right and gear yourself for a future that you truly anticipated. life is short, we can't stop friends from leaving, but what matter most is to emerge as a better person. good luck.

Answer 4

Remember, fighting with people can really enhance how you feel about people in so many ways. You could be feeling remorseful, and your emotions can be over amplified because its a deep situation.  If your are turning Bi, then thats all up to you of course, Im not going to judge you. Good luck man, this sounds hard and nerve wrecking- but, I have a feeling your going to be fine, just wait and see what happends because "you can always lead a horse to water, but you cant always make them drink" so, do what you can to be a good friend and let him approach you when you're ready. :)