I don't know what to do, I can't see him again and I'm in a lot of trouble, please help, i'm begging you?

Question

Well here's the story, my boyfriend and I have s*x, surprising huh? well we've been keeping it secret for a while from certain people. Well, my "friend" went to my boyfriend's sister's softball game and was texting me asking if i was having s*x with my boyfriend at the time, and I wasn't and I kept saying NO because we weren't at the time, we don't have it that often. So my "friend" was apparently mad at me and told his sister we were. The sister came home from the game and started yelling at us, my boyfriend attacked her and I turned to leave. I was at the door when she came up behind and hit me, so I hit her back (and apparently some of the other girls) Then his mother comes running in telling me to get off of the property but I had to stay in distance because my phone was still in that house, and I had to call my mom. I told his mom what exactly happned word for word, everything I saw. She sat and talked to me but I don't have a clue if she believed me or not. I can't see him, text him, be with him in her line of sight ever again. I don't know what to do, it's tearing me up because I love him and not being able to see him, it's just hard. What can I do, how can I deal with this, someone help!!!

Please, can you help me?

Answer 1

Wow...I'm sorry. Is there any way that you can talk to his mom? Maybe send her an email or catch her as she's leaving the house? Also, talk with your "friend" because it seems as though he/she started it all. Explain to him/her, in person, that you were not lying. And see where it goes from there.  

Answer 2

Ok first girl you should never Fight or Hit anyone, that is trashy. And second How old are you 17? Just wondering, cause one of the reasons that she could be worried is , well ,you are a minor and if anything was to happen you could get him in alot of trouble. Do your parents and his parents know that your having s*x?

Answer 3

Your "friend" started it all.

Can you secretly meet up with him? Then tell him what happened. Tell him to tell his mummy what happened? Then tell him to tell his mummy to respect his privacy. He is a big boy now, isn't he? And we all know we don't mess with the big boys.

After all, it is very ungracious of his sister to hit you. Also, ask your bf to tell his mom this. Ask him to tell her you do not appreciate being hit.

Ask him to be forceful when he says it to his mom.

Answer 4

I'm not sure how old you are... but maybe the mother feels like she doesn't want the two of you together if you are not old enough to be doing certain things ( just a guess ) I don't want to get into your business.

You just have to calm down some... love can survive anything.

If you love that guy then just relax love always finds a way.

I think the best you could probably do is just talk to him... if you can somehow… and then maybe he can talk to his mom about you, and tell the truth and maybe she will forgive you.

If it doesn't work out just remember you still have love in your own heart.

Good luck

Edit: Try to see what the mom is uncomfortable about... If you can find out why she is upset or whatever she is feeling. Then maybe you can make things alright for her and then maybe she will understand everything, it sounds like she's part of trying to make things better.

Answer 5

idk rlly confusing