I don't know what to do, I feel stupid and used =(.........?

Question

Me and my bf have been together for over a year. Well, today when I was on the computer I was checking his mail, I do that and he doesn't mind. Anyway, I know I shouldn't have, but I looked in his sent messages, and I saw around 30 emails he sent to girls off of Craigslist. This was back in May and June. I was devastated because he was talking to them like I don't exist and saying he cant wait to find the one when he has told me time and time again i am the one. I confronted him earlier and he admitted to it. We were both crying and he was on his knees crying and begging for a second chance, saying he was sorry. I dont know what to do, I feel like just crying and crying. I love him still but I dont feel like I will evertrust him again.... Plz help =(

Answer 1

I laughed reading this! :D

HAHA, this is back in June, it's over now, so he probably took the time and manned up! So forgive and forget.

Answer 2

thats shady!! He must not think that highly of you if he is looking for women on Craigs List??? wtf??

Answer 3

f him, once a cheater always a cheater...trust is the hardest thing to get back once someone has betrayed. I saw get over the hard part now and dump him trust me it will be better than later when harder to do it. This is just what I would do, i am not a very forgiving person when it comes to someone treating me poorly and trying to cheat on me obviously he didnt love me if he is doing that stuff. Just some friendly woman to woman advice. Trust me as hard as it is to find someone there is someone out there that will fall in love and treat you the best and love u just the way you are:) God bless and take care girl.  

Answer 4

I feel so bad for u!!!! But I don't think all hope is gone. If u both talk together and u both love each other TRULY then stay. But if he doesn't really fight for u then give him up.    And if ur not quite comfortable with him yet then take a break from each other. But keep an eye in him and make sure he doesn't go back to other girls.!  

Answer 5

When trust is gone - relationships are just a sham........ go now and avoid further pain.