I don't know what to do..I'm gonna go crazy. Help me.?

Question

So I a few days ago some girl im'd my bf and i saw that he had an explicit conversation with her. He said "i was bored." ''i didn't consider it cheating. i wasn't in to it." blah blah and i was PISSED...but idk why..i forgave him and took him back. now i'm like going crazy and im having serious trust issues and i think im going crazy. and that night he deleted all of his im logs. and theres something in a inbox of his online of a girl asking him for his aim...she's not on his list. i don't even know how i feel right now. half of me wants him still but the other half feels so dead because of what this is putting me through. i don't even know if my heart is in this relationship still but i kind of want to make it work. we're almost 8 months. can someone please give me advice before i lose it. please. every day when he picks me up i feel kind of sick but i do care for him. im just..idk what i am. am i crazy? someone please help.

Answer 1

I think you need to talk to your boyfriend about this problem and how you feel. Trust me from personal experience... you need to talk about your problems or your relationship will end and u'll be upset over it. hope this helps

Answer 2

Dump him. You dont deserve to be treated like that. your not crazy,if he dosent care about what hes putting you through,hes not good enough for you. (and what kinda guys does that? the explicit IM thing? thats just pathedic)  

Answer 3

Take some time away from him. First it will let him know he seriously hurt you and that your not ok with him doing that. And second being away from him will allow you to see if you truly want to be with him or not.

Answer 4

NEVER be unsure....either be ok with it or not.. if your unsure dump 'em

Answer 5

patient if he chats days will let you know or ask him and tell him to give an honest ansewr  

Answer 6

how 'explicit' was the convo? I would be pretty sus about it as well if I were you, but definitely don't spaz out in front of your bf, you dont want him thinking you're insecure and don't trust him. Try keep a cool head and keep a look out for this ***** x) He picks you up everyday! that's really sweet, if he was into some other chick he would be a lot more distant.

Guys are generally more friendly than girls and they talk to pretty much everyone so maybe your bf was just being nice. Convos can get off the tangent easily so don't be too down on it =(( Girls tend to overthink on things =PP  

Answer 7

you're not happy, you're not married, it's not that big a deal to just break u[ with him if you don't like him much/ he drives you crazy.

Answer 8

i would feel the same,t talk to him i mean 8 months, you should have some communications