I don't know what to do! I'm so confused ?

Question

ive been seeing a guy for about three months now his in the army so we live in different states he was going come down this weekend after being in training for 30 days but called me thursday to tell me he had to work other week. in order to pick him up at the airport which is a three hour drive from where we live and i had to use my parents car so my step dad wanted to go with me make sure i would make it ok and of course meet my "boyfriend" he also had some business he needed to do so he was just going come with me when i told my boyfriend he said he wasn't real into him coming and that he would just work other week he now isn't really talking to me when i told him there's no way i can get him next weekend due to the fact my partner in my job is leaving for a vacation for a month by then and i cant leave work to get him nor will i have a car really to do so before all this is he would text me or called me everyday sent video messages to my phone and now nothing really is going on he said he was ready to settle down and see how things go between us but to me it seems like his still playing game i don't know what to think about what his doing am sick of these mix feelings and this mix act his doing as well what should i do?

Answer 1

My signature advice: trust your gut instinct and go with it.

I've come to find that every single time (never ever fails) I've had a first reaction to something that I went against, in the end, I always tell myself "I knew this was going to happen! I should've just went with my first instinct."

You say you have mixed feelings and I'm sure you're probably not sure what really is your inner voice and which is your heart talking, but if you rationally think about it, you are already admitting to knowing he's playing games, and it sounds like he is. However, I'm a true believer in not assuming things, so I would first talk to him seriously about this. If he doesn't find time, doesn't seem serious, or something else comes of it that you don't like, then get out of that now before you end up regretting not doing so. Good luck.