I don't know what to do about my love life or how to even start to fix it.. Please help?

Question

My ex Gf, who i went out with for six months broke things off with me about 2 months ago but soon after she came back and said she loved me and wanted to be with me... then it was she didn't wanan be anymore then did then didn't... After it was on and off a few times I found out her family hates me because we slept with eachother and her mum wants her with some other boy.... Not to long ago she ran away from home... I went with her and after a while we both came back to my house.... and she fell alseep in my arms that night (That was really special to me) Since then she went away for a few days and when she came back she blocked me then unblocked me...then met up with me... then broke it off again and said she didn't love me... soon after she said over personal messange (A messange everyone can see) That she had broken her own heart... the next day her family came to my house and said leave her alone... soon after the police came because of this and there was a police women who said she said she don't want anything 2 do with me and is messing with my head and i'd be best to leave it... Since then she has gone away with her mum best mate and this boy that her mum wants her with but she says she is not.... I'm real upset about all of this cuz all i did was try my best for her now i'm blocked and deleted on msn and I have no idea how to fix it.... PLEASE HELP

PLEASE!

Answer 1

You can't fix it, you are being told that you will never be accepted by this girls family, and they are making it difficult for both of you, you have to move on, I have four grown up kids and they have all had their share of heartache, but in the end they have all moved on and found partners and are happy, you will too, but first you have to let time heal your pain.  Best wishes to you.

Answer 2

heya,

It seems to me like she doesn't know what she wants and her family are making decisions for her that aren't their's to make.

She obviously doesn't care for you enough to be with you no matter what is said so for that reason your both better left alone maybe give her some time but make it clear that this is make or break- if you want to give her anouther chance but if she does it again don't go back it'll make you stronger and in time you'll heal and find some1 new.

It may be really hard to leave her but you both need space and her heart aobviously isn't in it and you deserve much better than that.

trust me there are girls all around who are probs better suited for you just waiting 4 u lol but don't rush into anything let ur heart heal and she may have done you the biggest favour in your life. By pushing you away you may find the girl of your dreams and so much more.

hope i helped, good luck and thanx 4 answering my question :)

XXxX

Answer 3

After a break-up with a guy who i wish had stayed and whom i loved really dearly..i read this on a card in a store one day and it help me get over the horrible break-up and let me know i cannot force or coerce anyone to stay who wishes to go, no matter what i did..."If u love someone let them go free (free them if they want to leave) if they are to return, nothing will stop them from returning, if they do not return, it was never meant to be". Just let it go...as painful as it will be..set them free..u don't know what the rest of ur life holds..

Answer 4

Time to walk away. This must be so hard for you but your gf family have so much power over her she is doing what she feels is her duty and will probably end up with this other boy.  You have done everything you can and its not enough leave her and try and move on.  

Answer 5

ummmm.... i didnt understand the question that well...but i was trying to be nice by answering since you answered mine...but it's not really working out...sooooo sorry bout that

Answer 6

...As i can understand, you really love her...but asked yourself..does she really loved you too? The way i see it, she took your love for granted because she knows you love her deeply.....and she is too proud of it..

Try to cool down with her....for awhile...for her to realize that she need you in her life.Don't always run after her...for you to know if she loves you.  If she do, she will come back to you...or unblocked you again. What she did to you was quite foolish.  

But if you really want her back after all she did, then it's up to you..Follow you heart's desire..you can have someone to bridge your communication with her.But if after that she still ignore you, then leave it..Look for another gal worthy for your great love....just think she is not the only girl for you... just think"SHE'S YOUR SOMEONE BUT NOT YOUR ONLY ONE"  _SMILE_ ...the right girl will come your way...soon  

Answer 7

You can not FIX something that you have no control over.This girl obviously,has so many people she is trying to please she doesn't know which way to go .Give her a break.If it means you do not see her for a while,so be it.If somewhere down the road you can be together,Great.But all this back and forth,does no one any good.If she is using you ,a little time apart,and you will know for sure.  

Answer 8

i think she was confused she probably loves u but knows she cant cause of her mum which is real sad shes probably confused and doesnt know what to do i would try to contact her and see whats going on dont give up if u love her :)