I don't know what to do about these friends anymore?

Question

My friends ignore me and make me feel stupid all the time when I go down to there house. These people are really confusing the h**l out of me one minute there nice and next there not. one is in jail and theres always fights when I go there. I don't really know the real define of a friend or if I should just block them totally out of my life and be without friends for a while. I am like so depressed from this and stressed out and don't know how much I can take anymore.

Answer 1

These do not sound like very well-intentioned people to me. Are you sure they are people you WANT to be friends with? Give yourself more credit and value and decide it's better to be without "friends" like that and wait for the right people to come into your life. If you're in high school, I know how hard that can be. Peer pressure is tremendous. Try and join some clubs/activities that allow you to meet people with similar interests. That will help weed out the people you wouldn't normally "mesh" with. Focus on your strengths and reach for good feeling thoughts. Thoughts produce vibrations that then "attract" similar vibrations to you, like a magnet. Visualize (think in detail) the types of people you would like to know and be friends with and then make those GOOD feeling thoughts your dominant thoughts. Very soon you WILL find yourself in situations that bring you exactly what you want. Ask, believe, expect, thank... receive :-)

Answer 2

from the book "the last lecture"....don't be friends with people who don't make you feel good about yourself.

Don't bother waisting your time on people who don't respect you.  If you don't feel the best you can around your friends then they are not your friends.  Friends bring you up, they help you out and support you.  Never would a friend make you feel stupid.  Stay out of their drama and you'll be much happier :)

Answer 3

Sometimes the only friends we have are the people we really don't like.And I understand why you are still friends with them.No one really wants to be without friends.But the thing is you shouldn't hang out with people that make you feel bad.And you shouldn't be friends with people who don't have any real respect or like you for you the whole time your friends not just on and off that's what friendship is pretty much about.Sometimes it can be easy making new friends but if isn'tnt just hang in there because you will and hopefully they will be better than these ones.