I don't know what to do about this girl that annoys me and my 3 best friends?

Question

She thinks she's our friend, but all she does is bother the four of us. She's really immature and annoying and talks nonstop. The thing is, we're going on a class trip to Washington DC and there's 4 people per room. We all want to be together, but she's going to request us, and so we'll get all mixed up. I don't know what to do. Our grade is pretty small so we can't ignore her, and our parents are all friends so we can't tell her to go away. Please help!

Answer 1

That is so sad. I feel so badly for her. She thinks you are her friend. Can you imagine how it would break her heart if she knew what you and your friends really thought about her?

Well, I know. It happened to me in eighth grade, and it really broke my heart. I thought this group of girls were my friends. I had known them for years. Then I didn't get invited to a birthday party that was supposed to be the party of the year and everyone was going. When I asked her why I hadn't been invited she said "because no one wants you there"

I was crushed. I cried all weekend.

So-try to give her a break. She is a person just like you, with feelings too. You need to tell her that the four of you want to be in a room together, and ask her to please not request them so that you aren't broken up. I'm sure she'll understand.

On another note, maybe after the class trip you could have a private talk with her. Heart to heart. Tell her that you really like her, but that she talks a little too much and you would like for her to try and tone it down a little bit. She'll be hurt but it might help her.

Try to be kind and understanding. Tolerate her as much as you can. You never know, she could mature and end up being the coolest girl you've ever known. I know that by the time I was a junior in High School I was extremely popular, I had passed my awkward and annoying phase and all those kids suddenly wanted to be my friends again. You know what? I made friends with them again, and never held it against them and we still talk 10 years later.

Answer 2

Well this might sound like getting rid of her but.

There are 2 ways to do this.

1.You said she talks a lot. Act REALLY I mean REALLY disrepectful and cut through her conversations and stuff. Act even more immature than her.

All of your friends should do it to the annoying girl. And then she might leave.

2. You could set her up with a guy or another group of friends, that would accept anybody. Like nerds or geeks (no offence to anybody)

Good luck.

Answer 3

I feel your pain. Try to make more friends that will split a room with you and tell her that you want to expand out of your usual group of friends. It's simple and easy.