I don't know what to do about this guy i like. ?

Question

This guy is one of my really good friends (has been for a year and a half) and i'm totally in like/love with him and have been for almost a year now, but he has a girlfriend who is also one of my good friends, though we weren't too close till about a month ago. i love him enough to want him to be happy and she does make him happy for the most part. should i tell him how i feel or should i move on or what? any advice would be appreciated.

Answer 1

don't mess up his love life!!

you should just stay friends for now, you'll find your guy. But when he breaks up with his girlfriend, you should talk to your friend about how you feel about him and then talk to him about how you feel.

Answer 2

normally i would tell you to tell him, but this is different for two reasons:

1-he has a girlfriend

2-said girlfriend is your friend.  if he is happy, and that is what you want, then move on.  it would stink to lose both your friends over this.

Answer 3

Don't keep it locked up in a closet. What's best is that you tell him how you feel but don't expect him to break up with the girl. Just tell him and if he is a good friend he would understand. he might have the same feelings for you but didn't know if u liked him back!

Answer 4

Hard situations. I say you go for it, go express to him how you feel.

Answer 5

Tell him tonight, if you LOVE someone you should tell them or else your just letting time PASS you by. If you have feelings towards him he deserves to know as much as you deserve to tell him. Your friend[the girl] will hopefully understand if she finds out, but if she doesn't at least you find who your true friends are. Just tell him and if he feels the same the best will come if not then at least he knows and it's out in the open. Hope I helped!!  

Answer 6

first of all i guess that you really like/love this guy or whatever to ask a question on yahoo about it. second of all, youth relationships don't last that long because, well they just don't. if you are a patient person, wait.

but really now i'm speaking from personal experience, i once had a really good guy friend, we were tight and knew each other all the way from grade 7 to 10. then the beginning of grade 10, i got a boyfriend and all of a sudden, my guy friend started liking me... then i eventually ventured on to like him too. well i ended up cheating on my bf, we broke up, my guy friend then asks me out the next day, i say yes, my ex then wanted to get back with me and my guy friend who just became my new bf found out, then we broke up... get it?

i know not all situations will turn out similar to mine, although i advice that you think about what you really want to do first. i lost a good friend, don't risk yours.

best of luck!

:)

-Armina (www.youtube.com/ArminaJFB)