My husband and I agreed that when my son was born I would stay home with him. My husband makes good money and we're okay on our bills and everything, and anything extra we might not have the money for I'm okay with and sacrifice that to be able to be with my son and care for him. He's almost 2 now. When my husband is home he rarely has to help me with anything. Anyway, I'm upset because my husband has recently decided that I can't have anything unless I get a job. If I ask to get something I know we should be able to afford he says, "You can get it when YOU can pay for it." For example, I want to get a costume for Halloween and dress up with my son this year because I love Halloween, and even told him that he could call it my christmas present and he still said no. He won't let me get clothes, either. Every skirt I have for church has at least one hole in it and my shirts are all stretched out from my son. I look like a big rag, but he just says "So what, get a job". I don't want to get a job because we only have one car, and I know that he isn't going to want to come home at midnight and take me to work in the morning and stay up with our son, then go to work. It might work for a week, and he'll say I was right. Plus he doesn't play or work with our son (abc's and stuff) like I do, and his idea of lunch is a bag of doritos and some fish sticks. What should I do? Daycare isn't an option.
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