my sister is 20 she has a baby (5 months) she has been with her boyfriend for about 3 years, when she was pregnant she found condoms on him and confronted him tried to look at his phone and it ended with him hitting him, all the family rallied round, begged her to leave him, but she stayed, since the baby has been born, she is round mine or has her friend round most of the time, he is never there, hasn't bought the baby one thing, is out every night of the week, she has found messages to other girls, he stays out over night, they fight constantly, the bank holiday weekend, she basically told him that this weekend she is deciding whether or not she wants to be with him and his actions will help her decide, so he went out friday stayed out all night, went out saturday went out sunday stayed out sunday night and then went out monday!!!! she told him she wants him to leave he told her give me a week (yesterday being the end of that week) and then went out every night of that week too, ended up in a big row sunday morning cos he didn't come home again and she locked him out and called the police as he was smashing her door and out something throught the glass window, he then told her she was selfsih for calling the police
she asked him to buy the baby some milk he refused and then called her at 11 pm asking her to go home as he wanted to get some clothes, she stayed at mine (another row) and went home yesterday, my mum went to see her and found out everything, she helped my sis by getting the windows fixed, tidying up, took her shopping bought the baby everything she needs and packed up all his clothes, he came back and told my sis he has no where to go and can she give him a month my mum said no basically (its my mums flat and the rent is not being paid!!) he left come back after my mum left and i told her he is sorry and that he loves her and i belive has now wormed his way back in, i don't know what to do, i told my sister what i think of him yesterday and told her he hasn't cared until you have chucked him out why can't you see him for what he is, i am now at the end of my tether i don't know what to do for the best
any advice from anyone who has dealt with a simalar situation will be great
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