I don't know what to do please help me?

Question

okay so, a week before school started my dad caught my mom cheating on him, but they talked and they said they were going to be honest with eachother and stuff. Well since then, my mom and my dad seems really happy, and we seem like a normal family for once.

but just now, i heard my mom talking on the phone with that same guy again, and she is just fooling my dad saying shes not gonna do anything anymore, but it just makes me really sad because my dad seems so happy and i dont want to ruin it, but at the same time i think he should know, so what should i do? any adivce? thank you in advance.

Answer 1

aww well i think you should first of all tell your mom what you heard and see what she says and if she admits to seeing that other dude again you should just tell your dad cuz he has a right to know and its better to hurt him a bit now than a lot later

Answer 2

I would confront your mom first and tell her what you heard. Talk it out with her and explain to her if she continues you will tell ur father the truth if she doesn't... im sorry you have to be in the middle of this.

Answer 3

i think u should talk to ur mum tell her how u feel ask her if she knows how u feel.. if she loves u that much shell do it for u...

ask her one q... just tell her thats its me or the man ur chattin to shell prob understand then that what shes doing is wrong...

what ever u do dnt tell ur dad if u want to make the fam work u goto help each other if she still dnt stop find out about the man hu shes cattin too try and find out as much as u can if u cant then just say to ur mum " yh mum i can help u around tell me hu he is ill help u go and see him" jus chat ****! find as much as u can from her find out wer he lives and BAM dats it! if it still dnt work... then all i can say is that tell ur dad all about it bcoz i rather be alone then get hert evry sec goz by... bet of luk babe

Answer 4

Wait until your mom and dad are together and tell them together what you overheard.  There is no reason for your mom to hurt your dad this way.  He was good enough to forgive her for it and she is hurting him more deeply behind his back.  Your dad needs to know and you need to tell him when they are both in the same room so she can't deny or accuse you of anything.  I am sure your dad will be hurt but he will also be happy that he knows what is going on.  Your mother deserves everything she gets.  I despise cheaters, all cheaters.  I am sorry you are put into this situation but your dad deserves someone on his side right now.