I don't know what to do

Question

Me and my boyfriend haven't seen each other for like 2 months. One month he was gone on vacation then I went on vacation right when he came back. My dad doesn't want me to have a boyfriend at all, my mom doesn't really care if I have one. My mom doesn't really like my friends so I can't leave the house to hang out with them which means I can't see my boyfriend, she barely lets me go somewhere if she knows there is going to be a boy there. He dosen't get his drivers license till like dec so he can't come sneak me out of the house either. I told her a long time ago when me and him first started dating, like 3 months ago. She said it "wasn't a real relationship". So now I don't really see him either because she forgot about him and now my boyfriend keeps telling me to tell my mom and stuff so maybe she can meet him, but I never talk to my mom about stuff unless it's pointless. So I don't know what to do like how to talk to her about it. Also my mom's bf that lives with us, I think he might be racist or something because he is always making black jokes. My boyfriend is half black so I really don't want my bf to come here because I don't want him to meet my mom's bf because I don't know what he might say. I'm lost I don't know what to do, I really want to see my bf.

Answer 1

If you only got to see him for the first month and then not for the next two than what's the point of even going out with him.  You could have seen him but you haven't tried.  Why is that?

Answer 2

i would just tell your mom. your young, if things dont work out, you will find someone else, trust me! you will be dating tons of boys before the age of 20, unless your like me, ive been dating my boyfriend since i was 16, we are now 21 =]

Answer 3

ya cant stop love girl, see him, its your life and your happiness, this could be your soul mate, dont let him slip away follow your heart!

Answer 4

Emawee, first of all school will start pretty soon and you can see him there.  I think your daddy won't ever want you to have a boyfriend until you get married, that is just how most daddies are - protective, so don't worry about him as much.  However, you need to work on coming to an agreement with you mom about that it is serious and you would like her to meet him.  Tell her again to remind her it is serious.  Also, tell her that her boyfriend's potential racism DISGUSTS you and you would like her to tell him to be cool.  Then also work on your boyfriend however necessary to ensure he makes a decent impression.

Thank you and good day.

Answer 5

You don't need a boyfriend.Sorry,I'm just telling the truth.