I don't know what to do that would be best for her,and I would do anything! My GF's dad just died yesterday!?

Question

plz tell me what should I do

Answer 1

be present in all areas:physically,emotionally,mentally,&s...

just do that and ask friend to please let you help

Answer 2

Ask her. She'll let you know if she needs to be alone. If she says she wants you around, support her always. Just be there for her when she needs you.

Answer 3

My father died in 2005 I wasn't with somebody then but my sister was with somebody.

All you really need to do is be there for her. Listen to her. Be her shoulder to cry on.

Let her know you are there for her and always will be.

If needs be sit with her for hours without saying anything.

Words you might think would cheer her up won't at the moment they don't really mean anything.

Let her be with her family also they need time to greve together.

And after the funral is all over she won't be back to her old self.

My boyfriend is still comforting me. And it's been  3 years.

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Answer 4

There is not much you can do for her. Let her know that you are there for her any time she needs you. To call you any time day or night if she feels she need to talk.Let her know that you are willing to do any thing for her. Most of all let her know that you lover and that you care for her. She needs your kindness and understanding. Good Luck and God bless Both of you.

Answer 5

My friends dad died not to long ago. His GF was  there for the funereal and was always hugging him when he cried. If your just there for them it will help them. Allow her to cry on your shoulder or hug you more than usual.  

Answer 6

Hon, just be there for her.  Lend a shoulder to cry on, an ear when she needs to talk.  No words are really necessary.  Just knowing that you're there for her, to lift her up in her time of sorrow, will be the biggest gift you could ever give.  It's the smaller things that mean the most when she's in a position like this.

When I lost my oldest son, I don't remember half the things people said, I don't remember all the people who were there, but I remember my best friend, not saying a word, just holding me as I cried.  She was there at every crook and turn...not talking, not reassuring me that everything was going to be ok...she just held me and let me cry.  That meant more to me than all the calls, the flowers, the well-wishers, and the words of comfort.  So just be there...she'll really appreciate that!

God's blessings on you and yours...Always, and my condolences in her time of loss.

Answer 7

just be there

comfort her, talk to her, let her know it will be okay

she will be upset for awhile so be ready

usually people go thru being angry, then grief, then they mourn

it is devastating losing a parent so give it time