I don't know what to say to my best friend?

Question

i need honest answers..my best friend since i was 4 has been there through everything with me & we tell each other everything. but I'm having trouble telling her the truth about the way shes acting. shes in committed relationship well it was before in the beginning. she cheated on him by making out with this guy a few times. then theres been other times she has kissed other guys but when she found her bf kissed another girl & was flirting with the girl she went crazy. she always flirted with guys but now i think its kind if hoeish. her bf apologized so many times & has even cried but she still hasn't really forgiven him. do you think this is right or fair? should i tell her what i think?

Answer 1

If I was you, I would just be honest and tell her. Bottomline, if she is truely your friend she will listen and guess what...that truth hurts sometimes. she'll get over it and she will probably be pissed, but by not calling her out when she is wrong, is wrong. honesty is the best policy. please don't do like the other person said and tell her boyfriend. your loyalty is to her not him. she be really pissed if you betray her by going behind her back. be honest, be matter of fact, and tell her. then give her 24 hours to allow what you said to soak in. you said that..."my best friend since i was 4 has been there through everything with me & we tell each other everything..." you both will be friends after this ordeal. hope that helps.

Answer 2

First off your bestfriend is trifflin as h**l.

Second off yes you can tell her what you think but she already knows what she is doing and she probably won't stop until she gets caught.

What she probably doesn't know:

Your friend is doing this because of her own insecurities and lack of self-conscious. She probably feels empowered by her actions. Talk to her about that because thats the part she probably doesn't understand.

Answer 3

I think you should tell ur bestie how u feel about her actions

Answer 4

he'll find out soon. Tell him and score secret brownie points.

Answer 5

If I were you I would just stay out of it! You don't want to get involved in all the drama, and if you are helping out the guy your friend might think you are taking his side or something. Just hope it passes soon!

Answer 6

I think you should tell so that she could realize it herself.

Answer 7

She's being a down right sl*t.

You need to tell her, there is no right for her and her boyfriend to be doing that.And since you guys have been best friends since the age of 4, she'll believe you, she'll be angry at first but, she'll come around.