I don't know what to think?

Question

My mom and Step Dad are breaking up, they have been married for like 10 years. He is like my real Dad I'm only 14 so he raised me for most of my life. He broke up with my mom for some one else out the blue, no one expected it. We are in Canada, but the only reason we are up here is because of him. We are from Oklahoma, USA. We are probably going to move far back there. He keeps telling me he loves, and that I'm his daughter regardless of blood he raised me. But I just don't think I can ever trust him again, of everybody in the world he is the last person I thought would do this to us. I don't hate him, but I don't Love him, and I don't want to see him anymore, I just want him to go away. Is this what I'm suppose to think. I understand that he loves me, but LOVE ISN'T EVERYTHING. and I don't know am I suppose to lie and tell him I love him just so people will stop worrying, and so he can get on with his life and leave me alone, or I don't know what to do.....

Answer 1

Your feelings are normal. You feel betrayed. You feel like if he loved you that he wouldn't have hurt you in this way. It's all up to you really. Maybe he made a mistake and does love you, but if you have no interest of continuing a relationship with him, then don't. I wouldn't be fake about it either, just tell everyone how you feel about the situation when they say something about something being wrong with you.