I don't know why, but I feel scare to live life or be happy?

Question

I feel as though I am scared to live life and and more especially to feel happy. Its weird, I know.

Answer 1

I think bad things happened in your life when you were groing up and now that nothing is standing in you way you subcounciously feel that everything will go wrong like before, but if you convince yourself that it's ok to be happy or that you will take whatever obstacles come your way it'll be easier for you to just be it.

Answer 2

Give your fears to God, everyone of them, let him take care ot them for you. Give yourself permission to desire all the beautiful details of a great life, use your energy to smile and laugh, have faith that you are entitled to enjoy your life, "it's your life" you are responsible and accountable to allow your dreams to come true.  Enjoy your journey!  

Peace Be Still

Answer 3

If am not wrong you think much of future. You dont feel happy coz the future things may make you sad. You dont smile full of your heart coz you are scared of unpredicted future.

Only one solution is live in the presence. Dont give much work to your mind. keep yourself busy.

Answer 4

Dogs are not stinky or dumb, I have two and find them wonderful to be around. I also have two cats who are very loving. These animals will not help you with your problem. You need to see your doctor and tell him what is going on. Life is what you make it and happiness comes from inside you. The way you feel is not weird. Some people need help to cope with life, this is you. See a doctor soon, so you can start living life. Good luck.....Poppy

Answer 5

I feel the same way right now. I've posted a couple questions this morning, and am considering the idea that I feel so undeserving of happiness because someone else has convinced me of such.

I used to be normal, and just recently I have discovered that slowly, over the course of 12 years or so, I have become a different person. I don't understand why I feel I can't be happy, or don't want to.

When he's around, I feel like I have to live for him and him only. So, respectively, if I break it off, what will I live for at that point?

I feel for you.

EDIT: Card Board & Poppy... oh, you guys are funny! But it's true! A dog will l**k your face and leave you feeling slimy. Cats, however, understand what you say and seem to answer. When I tell my cat I'm down in the dumps, he flattens his ears and rolls his eyes, as if to say "Whatever, shut up!"

Answer 6

Try a smile. Three hugs a day. Find a good song or mantra to repeat in your head that makes you feel good. Watch an uplifting, heartwarming movie. Look at something beautiful.

Don't be afraid! Life was made to live, darlin' :]... You just have to embrace it. Find something you love to do. Take each day on with something to look forward to.

Never let a moment go by where you forget that someone loves you ♥

Answer 7

Get some of your friends and head down to your local animal shelter and spend an afternoon with the cats. Ask questions and really get to know about the cats there. Remember not to talk to any dog because the they are dumb and stinky.