I don't know why i cheat....

Question

I have been with my boyfriend for 5 yrs i cheated on him before we had a year together and he still stay with me. I didn't cheat on him till now. I been working with this guy for the pass 7 month whom is married and for the pass 3 month we been having s*x. I want to stop but i cant. I ask my self everyday why i am doing it? I just need opinions. Please Help?

Answer 1

you dont need a reason, you are downright selfish and filthy. youre invovled with a MARRIED man, you have no respect for him and his wife who has not done a thing to you. you hurt people for no reason and have no remorse for it at all. you heart is black and you only care about yourself and your needs. if thats the kind of person you want to be, then let your boyfriend go so he can find someone who is really worth his time. i guess its really true that the good guys are always taken by the wrong women

and i bet you never really considered the possibilities of an std virus or pregnancy, i mean he IS sleeping with you and his wife, so hes exchanging body fluids all the time. thats all you are worth, is just spreading your legs to men who can easily access you.

Answer 2

well this guy must love you or something because i would leave the first time. you need to tell your guy that you have ben cheating and if you want to be with your guy still you need to tell the other guy that you cant do it anymore because its wrng for both and its not healthy. thats basically all you can do but you need to STOP because your hurting your guy and losing his trust. its not like he does this to you. so you shouldnt do it to him.

obviously you are not ready for committment to any extent

im sorry if that is rude but the truth hurts

pain builds character  

Answer 3

sounds like you have a s*x addiction, you should seek therapy and work out the problems you have had in the past that might cause you to act like this today

Answer 4

they might want to try something else, you know when your relationship gets too monotous, you know what the other person will do before they do it and you just want to see if there is anything else out there for you, BUT you don't want to be a grownup  and end the first relationship instead you just want to have your cake and eat it too by cheating.  

Answer 5

your boyfriend is not good in bed thats why you cheat.

Answer 6

a vulgar expression comes to mind;....

a stiff ________ has no conscience!

the act of cheating is selfish and insensitive. how would you feel if you found out your bf was steppin out on you????????

Answer 7

i beleive there comes a time in life when a certain urge in us pops up, we all do have them its only we never had the chance or supressed it byother thoughts.and then there are times when we happen to be in the wrong place at the wron time or right place at the right time for this urges to develop.

in this case how do we judge if its right or wrong?

all we can do is have a certain limitations and control

Answer 8

U need counseling

Answer 9

It sounds like you either just really like the thrill of doing something bad or you have stopped giving a **** about your relationship and are looking to get caught

Answer 10

You will eventually get caught...then what will you do?  Are you ready to ruin your marriage and also your co-worker's too.

Answer 11

IT sounds like your not happy with your  boyfriend if you are cheating on him.  Something is missing in the relationship that you crave and dont have.  Find out what that is and work on it with your boyfriend.

Answer 12

The easiest way to stop is to remove yourself from situations where you will cheat.  The only thing I can offer is that you need to learn how to say no.  And tell your bf, my ex did that to me and I found out from one of the guys she was cheating on me with.  At least do him that favor.