I don't really know what to think can you help me?

Question

So i have a boyfriend that i love with all my heart. I have been with him for almost a year now. He says that he loves me, he wants to be with me forever & now he is saying that he wants a child. I don't mind any of these things. Except for the fact that i met him in texas and we fell in love then i had to come back to california. We talk all the time and he is thinking about coming out here to stay closer. What do you guys think.

Answer 1

The future is always  something good to talk about with someone you could possibly grow old with. But for now keep it as talk. Take it slow, only time will tell your future.  

Answer 2

Well u seems to be going at a rocket speed. Well if ur relationship is much older and u r comfortable with it then go ahead but u can't predict the future. Nobody can assure u that ur BF would be with u after having the child. Bringing up a child at ur own is not that easy. There are so many social and emotional obstacles which u would have to face once indulged into the relationship. So first be sure and then take a step.  

Answer 3

i would want to live with him for a while before becoming a parent

you need to know how things are in a more permenant setting before bringing a child into the situation