Basically, I've never been interested in Japanese culture... but I was approached by a Japanese man; he was cute so I thought why the h**l not. Anyway... I've noticed a lot of things that sort of bother me. I know that Japanese men are known for being reticent, but geez! It's like I have no idea wth is going on!
Obviously he is quiet... but so am I. I think he talks more than I do tbqh. Anyway he was so for me visiting him in Japan since he has to go back for school and IDK. I maybe I would visit but I am definitely not living there. He would hang out with me all the time, etc. But then we had s*x... weird. He was still acting the same, but he went out to a huge gathering with his friends and he suddenly became EXTREMELY quiet and disconnected. I really don't get it... Maybe his friends hate me because he was always late to their hanging outs because he was with me? I don't know. Like I said, I don't know squat about Japanese culture. So I sorta stopped talking to him for two weeks and all of the sudden he is like: "why were you hiding from me?" and I thought that he was hiding from ME. I'm so freaking confused. And I told him that I thought he used me for s*x and he was like "why would you think that?" but then he is still VERY silent after all of this and I don't know. And I asked him will I be able to see him before he leaves and he tells me "I don't know". Wow. Wow wow wow. I don't get it. I don't get him. I don't get anything.
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