I don't understantd my ex why is this genrations of men lazy expecailly in the south? 25-30?

Question

I ended the relationship b/c he would not do c**p. we have a 2yr old and the whole time he barely help out with the child. he would go from job to job. now he want to get back and dose not understand why i refuse. He says he is mad. so but i took care of everything and very little effort on your part. we don't have any custody or anything. we have a civil arragment. that he is to cover daycare which he barely does. so if he mess 2 payments i will file for child support. i told him he can see are child when he wants but will on take him for a min. of 24 hrs. i told him if he does want to do his part then to go ahead and leave us alone. no questions asked and won't even press child support, b/c i don't want my child to go through the heart ach becasue daddy doesn't feel like stepping up. Can someone give me a logical reason? or how to get this loser to do somethihng.

Answer 1

This isn't a problem that is indicative to the South, this happens everywhere.  Sadly there isn't a way to make him step up and do what he should.  His failure as a father is a direct result of his upbringing.  Too many middle-age parents today have failed when it comes to how they raised their children.  

I am 40 with 4 children.  My wife and I have been married for more than 15 years...  I work everyday and take care of my family.  I live in South Texas.  I know a lot of men who fall into the age gap you mentioned who also work hard and love their families, so please don't think that all men from the south are worthless.

Perhaps you should have been a little more aware of who you were sleeping with.  Maybe your standards should have been a little higher?

Answer 2

go you girl, keep his *** out, he is a waster!!!