I'm getting married next month and my MOH asked me if I wanted a bridal shower, I said no because we just had a baby shower for me last month and I really don't want one. My MOH and bridesmaid(I only have one bridesmaid)accepted that and we went on with the planning.
However, when my cousin got wind I wasn't having a bridal shower, she called me and said "Come on Tori, having a bridal shower is a tradition! How can you break tradition?" I said "I'm not having a traditional wedding Vera, so please don't stress about it." I thought she understood but yesterday my bridesmaid called me and said "Vera's throwing you a bridal shower! It's going to be a suprise!". I went into complete and utter shock. I told her to tell Vera to cancel it, but my bridesmaid said it was too late and that she's the one that's suppose to lure me to my cousin's house to go to the suprise shower!
Well I'm not going, I don't want a shower!
What am I supposed to do? Tell my cousin or just not show up?
PS: I don't want a bridal shower becuase I think they're silly and wasteful and that it's just a scheme for more gifts. I've never wanted a bridal shower as a girl, even though I thought I'd be having a big wedding, but I'm not, it's going to be a small outdoor ceremony and then dinner at Red Lobster.
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