I don't want anyone to know i'm pregnant?

Question

I'm Married with 2 kids already and i'm only 25... I'm a fulltime student, with 2 yrs left to go.. I found out i'm pregnant.. what should i do? I don't want my family to know, because they'll think i'm a loser..My husband wants to tell the world. Someday my family will find out and i don't want that day to come.. They're just going to tell me, that i'm crazy, why wasn't i more careful, i'm a loser, etc... I'm really depressed about it, what should i do? I wanted another kid but not until 5 years from now.

My kids are 4 and 6. I'm still married to my kids father and we have a beautiful family but i don't want people to critizice me. plz give advice

Answer 1

the person above is rite, you are married and happy so your family should be happy for you, not frown upon another child, and if they do then that is there problem, have a baby is a wonderful thing, and you cannot change wat is already done, if they don't accept it then they will have to suffer the consequences in not being in the child's life or whatever is to happen, they should be happy for you because you are married, at least you aren't 14 and single having a baby, ya know. you are a married women and dont have to worry about how you are going to feed your child from day to day, and even tho u want to wait a few years for another baby just let nature happen. things happen for a reason, this baby could be a very good thing for you and your husband, and who doesn't love waking up to the smile of a newborn baby in the morning. =)  

Answer 2

Well if your family's opinion was so important to you, you would have been more careful and thought of that before going unprotected. because somehow I doubt you're on birth control and used a condom.

so good luck.

Answer 3

Well ur 25 and married who cares what anyone else thinks. It's your life not theirs. Good Luck!

Answer 4

If your family call you loser you don't need them in your life.