I don't want my girlfriend to come?

Question

I get together on saturday nights with some friends to drink and hang out, and my girlfriend asked if she could join us. She's a really sweet girl but she'd be no fun, and plus one of my buddies had a crush on her before we started going out, so I don't want her there. What's the best way to tell her no?

Answer 1

'Just tell her it's a night out for gigolos not for girls, anyway,  there are  still other days that you could be together.....tell her honestly that you don't want her to go for a reason that you might be jeolous seeing her talking with your buddies..

Answer 2

thats a tuffy, but u need to, i would want to know, she should understand, uz need alone time to, it strengthns ur relationship too..

Answer 3

Tell her that while you like hanging out with her, this is a guy's thing and so you hope she understands that girls arent invited.  Tell her that instead, you want to take her to a really good restaurant on saturday night (make reservations and tell her to dress up a bit!).

a girl should never ask for more time with her man, that just isnt right.  but the guy should cherish the girl all he can so she doesnt feel neglected.

Answer 4

Tell her bros before hoes..... Its a guys night out.... she could wait it out... I had a GF like that and i just told her NO flat out......

Answer 5

If there are other femals why don't want her to go, unless u don't want her to see what u really do & saying she is no fun means you have another girl who u find fun, & the lame reason that another guy used to have a crush on her is not convincing at all, I don't beleive u

I think u should be honest with yr self if u are on the way to have a crush on another girl or you love for yr current GF is fading just be honest with yourself and her tell her now better than 2omorrow

Answer 6

play the blame shift game!

mention to her that your close friend used to have a crush on her and it would make you jelous etc so you dont want to put pressure on your relationship with her or your friend.

say its like a guys nite out and it would be wierd if she came and compare it to you joining one of her girls nites!

but dont make her feel unwanted- tell her that rather then her coming out sat nite it'll be better if you guys spent quality time together and just hang out, go out for dinner,movies etc

gd luck tho! this ones hard to get out of! lol