I don't want to get depressed, but...?

Question

i told my crush that i liked him, but he said he didn't have the same feelings for me. i've already liked him for three years now, and i've finally decided to come out of my shell, and this is what i get.

can anyone suggest a quick yet effective way to handle my sadness? ALSO, this only happened less than 24 hours ago so i don't have any problems or anything, but school has started and i dont want this love disease to get me down.

Answer 1

he could have just SAID that.. but don't worry, now that he KNOWS you like him, he might start to like you too, but it will take a little time, and if he looks at you with weird looks then you can probably guess that he DOESN'T like you..hope i helped good luck, and remember #1 thing comes Good Gradesin school!!

Answer 2

Three years?  You waited to long.

You know what, s***w him your better than he is.  You must say this to yourself this three times a day for the next week.  Believe me just because one guys isn't interested it doesn't mean the next guy won't be or the next or the next.  You never give up or allow yourself to get down.  Every couple has problems just be happy you found out early on.  Suggestion:  1 pint of Ben & Jerry's peanutbutter cup ice cream!!

Answer 3

Rejection, everyone is turned down atleast once in their life. Don't worry about it one bit, so the guy you like doesn't like you... Im sure there are a load of guys who have the hots for you but you but are too nervous to say.

I told my best friend that i liked her around 4 months ago. When she told me she didn't feel the same way, i was distraught, I thought life wouldn't go on. Turns out that she is a really big slag so i am so glad it went no further and whenever im at a party with her, she will try to get with me but i don't as ive realised that its not worth it. So the tables have turned and shes after me. So that could happen with you.

Just remember that even though it seems like its horrific at the time, your soon get over it so just stay strong.

Answer 4

take a good look at yourself

and you'll realize that its his loss.

stay strong, be confident.

stand straight, head high.

be aware that there are many boys

who would drool over for you,

your crush just doesn't have the luck.

don't let the love disease get you down,

look at your future in a more bright and positive way,

there is a lot ahead of you.

love is in the air, it will hit you with the right person :)

Answer 5

go out. get away. forget about him

Answer 6

well you cant change someones feelings. maybe you should try going for other guys and maybe in the future this one will come around.. if hes smart =] lol

Answer 7

dont worry about it...the same just happened to me

and then he goes blurting out that he fancies my best friend now, who hes gonna ask out

that will make you hate him...it did for me  

Answer 8

go get wasted with your friends and then after a couple days, go look for another guy

Answer 9

you think that you are lucky that your boy friend tell you all the things truly .so you thank to god .he is really your good friend .because he will not play with your feelings .told you directly .he is not a boy in the world so concentrate on your life objective .there is very beautiful world do you feel this and love is not just taking it mean giving just put oneself in the feeling that my beloved is happy if he is not with me .just think the raddhaji  she is really honourable .your teen ager so there is very long way to go so don't get upset .take the other chalenge of life .be brave young lady  

Answer 10

You don't just "get over" something like this overnight. Give yourself some time. It is hard when you have a crush and the other person is not feeling it. I am sorry this happened to you. Maybe the next time you won't wait 3 years. That is a long time for other things to happen.  

Answer 11

aw that really is horrible. :[

try to get your mind off of it like,do some of your favorite hobbies

play a sport  

Answer 12

First post was good advice. Don't let this affect your life. It's his lost. Also just say to yourself, he wasn't worth you.

Answer 13

Easy. Keep up your grades, spend a lot of time with your girls, and just focus on trying to find another boy to dream about.

Answer 14

Honestly, it's going to hurt for at least a week. Crying helps. Seriously, it feels really good.

Also, try talking about it to see if it gets better or worse. If it makes it better, do it more, and if it doesn't, just keep it to yourself.

Answer 15

U should hang out with your friends more and try to forget this guy. There'll be someone else, be patient.  

Answer 16

ferget him there are way bettr guys out there u cn be wit just stay frends wit him just dont put urself down.tell me how it goes

Answer 17

You did the right thing, good for you. Right now it might seem like a bad move on your part, but you were just being real. Forget about it, and spend time with your girlfriends. If you hadn't come out and told hime how you felt, you'd be wondering "what if" for the rest of your life.

I bet you that if you get over it like nothing happened, and continue your life he'll come running back one day saying that he likes you. That isn't your motive for moving on though, your motive is to move on with your life.

Answer 18

hey you tae same thing again  

Answer 19

Hey, you did the right thing by telling this guy how you feel about him.

My advice is do not avoid him in school, talk to him and ask if you would like to be friends. And over time I'm fairly sure he will start to like you and that will eventually turn into love, trust me, my girlfriend did the same thing with me.

The down sides are that this will take a few weeks if not months to work.

P.S: I have a problem too, please help me out.