I don't want to get my hopes up?

Question

i had my son on the 4.4.08, and a while ago, i found out i was pregnant again, but within a few days of finding out, i miscarried. my period is a week late, and I'm scared to take a test. if its negative, i'll be crushed, but if it positive, well even though il be SO happy, boy will i be paranoid throughout the pregnancy!

i know most people are going to say, just take the test, but if anyone has some helpful advice or personal experience, id be very grateful!

Answer 1

it is extremely unhealthy to get pregnant now, your body is not done healing from the baby you had in april. I think if you care about having a healthy baby you will wait a little longer and get your body good and healthy before growing another child in your body. We are not like animals who heal fast and can have multiple pregnancy's

Answer 2

I dont know from personal experience, but I know that my cousin went through something similar. The first time she got pregnant was back in late 2005 and she was ecstatic and told everyone then she miscarried early. She got pregnant again a few months later and waited until she went to the doctor to confirm with a blood test but sadly she miscarried that time as well. So when she got pregant again in early 2007 she was understandably cautious in telling people. She didnt tell anyone until her and her husband went to the doctor and heard the heartbeat. This was an amazing and emotional turning point for them because they had never made it that far. So after getting that confirmation they annonced their pregnancy to everyone and she gave birth to a beautiful healthy little boy this past december. To her suprise she found out that she was expecting again four months ago and she wasnt even trying this time. This one is due in January 09. To sum up I just want to let you know that I know you will be cautious, but successes do happen after miscarriages. I hope that when you do get the courage to pee on that stick that it says BFP and I am sending you loads of baby dust to help your little peanut stick well.

Answer 3

well first try not to worry so much its not heathly yes u do have to take the test lol.. but you need to get your body back in a little shape before you want to have another baby which it may be but try eating right exercising. But if you are pregnant now just relax and youve already had one baby you know what to do youll be fine. Best of Luck