I don't want to go back to school?

Question

im completely dreading it and i think i might be schoolaphobic or whatever it's called. i dont have any friends at school even though i tried making some. everyone just shuns and ignores me becuase im weird.

im not smart or pretty. im so stupid and i s***w eveyrthing up. im a burden to everyone and a waste of space.

i want to stay home and learn but my dad doesnt want to homeschool me.

how do i make school more bearable? i've tried and tried making friends but i still dont have ANY. please help. thanks

Answer 1

maybe you could switch to another school so then you could have a fresh start were no one knows you as the "weird girl". that's an easy way to make friends because lots of ppl want to talk to the new ppl. then you can start making friends. thats the only advice that i have for you.

Answer 2

Please don't think you are a "waste of space". Its all in your head and your just sad about it :( You should never think of yourself like that.

Have you tried to talk to people you think you would get along with?  

Answer 3

Focus on improving yourself first to build confidence. Work hard for grades so people will respect you. Start doing a sport - it's a topic of conversation, it'll help make you prettier and skinny, and it's probably the best way to build confidence. You don't have to do a team sport, either. You might want to start with a more solitary one like karate. swimming, cross country, or tennis. Those sports let you compete against yourself and improve yourself to make you better.

Don't forget a makeover! Here's your checklist.

>haircut - get something in style!

>nails - fingers and toes

>buy makeup! - the necessities are cover up for acne, mascara, and lip gloss. (that's really all you need. most of the time i don't even wear lip gloss.)

>Get your ears pierced or if you already have them pierced, double them up.

>Buy some new clothes. Shoes, too.

>Go to a store like Bath and Body works and buy some perfume! - It's not too expensive. (remember not to wear too much though.)

Now I know it'll be hard to do all that, but you don't have to do it all overnight! And I also know this all seems very material, but that doesn't nesessarily make us bad people. ;)

A good way to make some friends is to make friends slowly with a member of a small group. Eventually you'll find yourself a part of the group, too. But know your limits. Don't start with the populars.

As with social skills, you can start with smiling at strangers and calling the telephone operator to ask for the names of businesses. At the store, ask for help finding things and what others recommend. You'll naturally start speaking more easily.

It's really important to not expect yourself to be perfect overnight. It's just like losing weight or getting better at a sport. It takes time, and you need to be patient and not give up. Best of luck.

Oh and if you have dorky interests, like Hannah Montana or Twilight (like me lol) try to keep it a secret.

Answer 4

well y do they think ur "weird". maybe u shood try making friends with other "weird ppl " lol do u hav any friends outside of skool? if i were u i wood just try 2 join activities n stuff. eventually ull meet sum1 wholl want 2 b ur friend! hope i helped!!!