I don't want to hate every man because of rape?

Question

I love my husband but I always hate every other man, and people have the guts to talk about it like it's nothing.

How do I get over this c**p?!?!!??!?!!

Answer 1

I am sorry to hear that something like rape happened to you.  Please understand that a 'man' does not force himself on anyone.  The person responsible was no better than an animal.  There is a special place in h**l for people like them.

It does sound like that you are trying to move past this and work with your husband, but sometimes even the most loving relationships need assistance.

I would seek immediate counsel for yourself and for the both of you (as a couple) from either a therapist or chaplain.  

Good Luck!

Answer 2

It's not nothing.  You don't say how long it has been since you were attacked.  If it is fairly recent, this is a normal part of the healing process.  The fact that you are asking this, though, says that you feel ready to move on.  There are no quick fixes for how to do that.  Therapy helped me a lot.  Hang in there.

Answer 3

therapy helps so much