I don't want to hurt my girlfriend? please help

Question

Ok i love my girlfriend Ashley with all my heart. She is the best thing to ever happened to me.She is beautiful, sweet, s**y, smart, adorable, amazing body, funny, well she is perfect in my eyes :). Ok i was at my g/f place and with my girl in the house but different room; her bestfriend started hitting on me; she kissed me. I DID NOT KISS HER BACK. What do i do, this has been going on for awhile, her Bestfriend has been flirting with me but i try to ignore it cause i dont want to ruin their friendship or start drama. h**l i believe 2 weeks ago, i was at a club with my friends(yea we are still in high school, ever hear of fake IDs). But her Bestfriend started flirting with me there and dead some dirty things like she just came over to my table and sat on my lap and give me a kiss. I AM NOT RESPONDING TO HER or anything, i am trying to ignore her. Ashley is the only girl in my life that i like. I wonder if some of you could give me some advice, i usually don't do this but i need the assistance. I do not want to hurt my girlfriend's feelings, like i said I love her. She is my Kitten(yea corny but i love to give her NNs, she thinks it is cute).

i honesty do not know what to do about her BFF. She is turning her back on her "bestfriend". I did not kiss her back or anything, i did not flirt back with her. She keeps flirting with me and i am afraid my g/f will get hurt in all of this and i dont want that to happen, when she is hurt, i hurt. We are going to be sophomores in high school, please someone help. I don't see what is so special with me, ok i may be handsome with good looks but i am not the hottest guy alive. Why would my g/f's bestfriend do this to her. My girlfriend is like the sweetest, nicest, most down to earth girl on the planet and she is all mine :) Ok i don't own her but you know what i mean. I do keep telling her bestfriend to stop but she won't. She keeps on flirting with me.

please Help, someone

Answer 1

Dear you may be in love with your girlfriend Ashley.....In these cases advice really does not work because you want to hear the answer of your choice....honestly speaking yours is infatuation......

Why do you bother about their friendship? If they are friends they will sort it themselves.

Actually you want to possess Ashley and use her best friend. Like we love possessing an expensive car but for daily use we would prefer the ordinary one.

Though you say you do not reciprocate to her advances but you enjoy it.... because it is like a bonus

Answer 2

*applause maya* i agree completely most of the time advances continue when you dont stop her you probably think "oh it's cool she'll stop eventually" probably not at the rate this is going tell your gf if she continues then signal your gf simple as that the worst thing that can happen is your gf walks in and sees you with her bestfriend that is when it's over for good

Answer 3

Youre stupid. YOU ARE A MAN ARENT YOU?

Then act like one.

Since the first time she made an advance your dumb *** should have put your foot down!

She is making these advances because you allow it to continue!

You must tell her, I WANT NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU SO LEAVE ME ALONE BEFORE I TELL MY GF

however you must tell her, sorry bro but she must know.

Women are very strange creatures.

Havent you noticed that when you are TAKEN alot more women seem interested in you, that is because 1) They See a good girl with you and think "WOW he must really offer something great for them to be together and so happy 2) women envy each other and try to compete for attention

Her friend is a snake, not a true friend who probably spites her,

and now sees you guys having a good relation and wants you to, and as a snake she wants to steal you so she can show her off....

If u truly loved her you woulda put a stop to this and told the other chick off, you are guilty to, seems you to want attention.

You should know what to do, if not, you dont deserve Ashley either

Answer 4

highschool girls can be tricky

you dont know the friend isnt testing you, with or without your girlfriends blessing

tell her no, and tell your girlfriend whats been goin on

and tell her its been going on for weeks but you hoped she would get the message but hasnt

cover your own back here

Answer 5

Honesty is the best policy.

Talk to your girlfriend, NOW.

Get her alone.

Tell her you need to tell her something important, but it's very very important that she believe you, because you love her very much.

Explain that you have been afraid to tell her because you don't want to ruin her friendship, and perhaps that you are concerned that "BFF" will lie and put it on you when confronted.

Tell her everything that has occurred.

Tell her you don't want to mess up their friendship but that you also don't want to lose her over her friend's stupidity.

Answer 6

I think you should tell your girlfriend what her friend is doing. Her best friend may have a plan to split you 2 up, and that plan involves you cheating on your girlfriend. So far you haven't done anything wrong. you have told your gf best mate to back off and she hasn't. Tell your girlfriend and let her deal with her best friend.