I don t wanna problem in my family plz help me plz what should I do????

Question

Well I m 15 & this summer i spent about 2 weeks with my aunt. At first everything was going perfectly till my cousin who s nearly 20 start trying to get in my pants. the first 5 days, i didn t suspect sth, even if he was starring at me all the time & touching me and kissin me, i though he considered me as a sister, then he tried to rape me, but i pushed away violently & i hurt my arm. i didn t tell my aunt a single word i don t wanna problems in my family.i lied about everything i lied about my arm & said that i fell when i was playin soccer.i know i shouldn t be silent about this whole thing coz he might rape me & i won t be able to stop him then. My aunt keeps inviting me to spend a whole month up there & she promeses me that your cousin will drive you to her home.I keep refusing & she keeps asking for the reason & i reply i just can t.and now my parents are killing me with saying it s your aunt it s your aunt go and visit her. I don t know how to escape this invitation but i don t wanna tell the truth i don t wanna problem in my family.what should i do??

Answer 1

first off he is your cousin he must be stopped you need to tell your parents and then need to talk to your aunt or maybe you could talk to your aunt by phone. believe me  if your aunt had any feelings she would sure listen. don't worry about breaking family up. these things might happen it is your life. and besides if you don't tell he could be easily hurting other ones out there and it might be young children. please this cousin is not safe. please tell your parents for the sake of you and others rape can kill a person please good luck always

Answer 2

you can do one of this  choice is  is yours

1)

you can talk to your cousin directly that you kept silent only because you don't want problems between your families and also tell him that  if her don't stop that behaviour you will tell to your parents and your aunt about this(because if you don't you will suffer).

2)

keep silent but if you do this he will take it as advantage and will enjoy while you suffer.

Please forgive me if I hurt you with my answer........

Answer 3

GIRL...

You need to stop worrying about there being a problem within your family for speaking up! This in itself is a problem within the family! TELL SOMEONE!!!!!! Why wait until the worst happens and he rapes you before you say something?? Take control of the situation now! This is horrible and disgusting! Stand up for yourself! He is sick! IF YOU DON'T SPEAK UP THEN YOU YOURSELF HAVE ISSUES! Why would you allow this to happen? Stop worrying about what will happen n your family or what they will think! THAT WILL NEVER BE MORE IMPORTANT THAN "YOU"!

TELL THEM!!!

Answer 4

Tell the truth you artard.

Answer 5

You will have to tell Your mother

I am sure that She will empathise with You and may, or may not

create a scene.

This cannott go on any longer. Mum may justcover for You, or put a stop to it altogether.

Either way, It will be better for You in the long run.

.Trust Your Mum!

Good Luck

Regards Pa!