I dont Know What To Do Anymore.?

Question

I'm a teenager and i never get on with my parents. i know it is normal for teenagers to argue with their parents, but there isn't a time where we actually have a relationship. I just feel like they hate me and if i try to talk to them they just ignore me or say something upsetting. i don't know what to do. i always feel like just running away and never coming back.

Answer 1

Haylee,

  I am 29 now but, I was the first kid in the state of Minnesota to become immancipated from both of my parents. Everyones situation is different but you sound as though you are desperate. Don't run away it will only prove emotional instability on your part. If your parents are hindering your emotional growth or well beinng you can potition a motion against your parents with the courts. the first thing I would do is call teenage shelters etc. gather info so you can have an advocate to walk you through the steps. Also you need to show the judge that you are in fact responsible and your grades will not only stay the same but improve without the domestic turmoil. And you must be prepared with a safe, stable living arrangement to approach the judge with. My case was sooo bad I had to take an order of protection against my folks and court was one week from there, and they cannot come near you until it is resolved. If abuse is involved I wouldn't wait..., it will continue.  My Prayers!

Answer 2

that's too bad. I don't know what to tell you or how to ease your feelings. Just one thing I know. Pray. Tell all your hurts in your prayer. Only God can really help you and take care of you.

Answer 3

I Have the same problem well useed to , you try and not argue with them or if you have to , give as good as you get and get your point across to them, dont hold back or be scared , whats the worst they can do ? they'll listen if you tell them straight x

Answer 4

try writing them a letter of how you feel, then you won't have to face them. ask for them in the letter to c things how u do and not to comment about it afterwards.

Answer 5

This is probably not what you want to hear, but someone has to take the lead on stopping this arguing, why not you? Tell your parents how you feel and ask them to set down with you and try and resolve the problems.