I dont feel like i love him but i actually know what love is?????

Question

ok so i think i have been in love twice-i cant explain how i felt but i think it was love?

well my current BF-

i have been with him for the longest time than any ex's

i want to please him, look after him and care for him

i literally think of him almost every minute of the day

i cant enjoy myself when i'm out with the girls as i miss him

i knew from our 1st date that there was something special about him

i cant see myself being with anyone else and i wouldn't want him to ever get with someone else

BUT i don't get that weird love feeling inside?????

Answer 1

It sounds like either infatuation or love to me, I dont know what the weird love feeling is because all I feel is warm, comfortable, extremely turned on  and very safe when I think of my man.

Maybe this is love for you, maybe its a mothering thing who knows.

In time maybe you will understand that this is probably the real one and the other two loves you had were just infatuation.

Answer 2

All relationships have stagnant feelings, just like your parents...they get on your nerves,   nobody can have high emotional feelings all the time, and what is important'....people being together regular can make you frustrated, look at big brother' [TV series] they all get on each others nerves....you love him

Answer 3

you cant be in love more than once...you can have infatuation with them a crush ou can even love them alot of times but you cant be in love more than once

you should first find out what love is thats what i did i realized iw asnt in love with my other girlfriends so i broke up with them but my ew girlfriends is my soulmate lol

just find out what love is

Answer 4

There is no "weird love feeling"... people just say this because it sounds cool... all the things you said MEAN that you do love him... if your thinking about him every minute that means you loooooooooove him

Good Luck

Milan

Answer 5

i think you do love him just that you dont realize it 100%..its hard to explain.

i think you'll only see it and feel it when you break up with him (not saying to do it)

it happened to me...i left someone then i saw how much i really cared

Answer 6

There is infatuation and there's love. Sure infatuation is a great feeling and if only it was around all the time. And love sometimes 'feels' absent but love lasts and always be there, infatuation won't. When you hear about couples who are married for half a year then divorce because 'the love was gone'. It was more like it wasn't there in the first place- they were mistaking infatuation for love.

It sounds like you have something great! Don't throw real love away.

Answer 7

I think love feels differently with every person.

I'm guessing you ahd these feelings with your exes? I only had this feeling with my first boyfriend, I thought I was in love with him but I never cared or wanted him like the way I do with my partner now.

I love my boyfriend, but I dont get schubileebub (what we call it) but I think thats actually down to me being 'broken' at the moment I feel now feelings, not happiness, loss, anger, anything.

Sorry this hasn't got much to do withy our question, I jus need to say this out loud (in text) sometimes.

It sounds like you do. Either way I'd definately stay with him, its hard finding a guy that you can care about that much :D

Answer 8

maybe your bored.. be different take things to a new level