I dont feel pleasure while having s*x.?

Question

i dont understand why?

i dont think its mental cuz i really do want it.

ive been with my boyfriend for 5 months

im deeply inlove with him

we do like an hour of foreplay

he knows how to turn me on and make me wet

i feel pleasure during foreplay,

but not when his fingers or p***s is inside of me.

i am on paxil fo bipolr 1 disorder, so maybe it could be a sexual side effect?

dont yell about my age please, but im 16. so i cant go and see a Gynaecologist, and it will be hard to find an excuse for switching meds.

what do i do? please please please help me?

Answer 1

Okay at your age.... I won't say it...

But how old is he???? Does he even know what he is doing? Show him how you like it. Sometimes you just to help him find the right place to put it. Try getting on top, from behind, lying on your side. Try different positions to find what you like to make you reach your max. But I am sure when you get older you will find someone who knows what they are doing, and you will find pleasure.

Answer 2

You can go to planned parenthood for gynecological needs, its confidential and low cost or free for someone your age.

Answer 3

It could totally be the paxil. I was on zoloft for a while and when I first started it I soooo didn't enjoy s*x of any kind. It was like I didn't even have any hormones. It changed after a couple of months though and I was ok again. I hope it's that easy for you too.