I dont get it? why do you women play so many games?

Question

i finally got an answer to what my ex wanted to do with the car, and she blows up on me. why? she should be happy she doesn't have to pay or talk to me any more. right? and she through in that the papers are in the car. like that would hurt me, i filed before she did. can two people file for the same divorce? now she is acting like its all my fault? she cheated on me. jeez what a good way to play mind games or what do you guys think?

Answer 1

you have to understand that she cheated for a reason......do you know why......was she never in love...was it a mistake........is he cuter...a talker why did she?.

second....be strong......be strong....pray and pray it through

Answer 2

she's trying to justify her own guilt. it makes it easier for her to deal with the situation by blaming you instead of admitting that she's the one at fault. just do your best to deal with it and move on is all i can say.  

Answer 3

maybe shes feeling guilty because she cheated and maybe shes regretting what she did.  Women are not the only ones who play games, men do too

Answer 4

Well for 1, just because your ex was an egghead doesn't mean all women are. I would say, just count your blessings on being able to end things with your ex. It sounds like she is more bitter with the idea that you are ending things with her, even though it was her mistake in the first place. No one deserves to be treated that way and I hope for your sake, you will eventually find a better person that respects you and your heart.  

Answer 5

to women...games are like subtle test.....you're either a real man..or a wuss......

dont be a wuss.

Answer 6

It's not just women that play games. Men do too.

Answer 7

yeah sounds like she is playing games and that her egos dented a bit!she doesnt like the fact you get in their first cuz it exposes her.sounds like your well rid!jutsignore her and try to put it behind you if possible.if you rise to it,she'll just keep blaming you ,sounds like thats whats shes trying to do,to turn it all around so she looks like the innocent party!boy ,what an ego she has!stay away ,dont get drawn into her negative world!

Answer 8

Sounds to me like she wanted to have her cake and eat it too. She's sooo playing games. You need to stay strong because she's done it once; she'll do it again. Not sure but I think once papers are filed, she cant file unless its an answer but then she'd just have to sign her copy. thats weird. good luck, and don't let her make you so crazy, she's the one that messed up!