I dont get why my best friend did this?

Question

we are each others best friend. im her second. but we call each other sisters and best friends thru no matter what... but yesterday she texted me heres what she said;

hi *****. (i thought she was just playin) i said yo wats up and she said *****! i said r u serious she was like chyea and i was like why she was like you know, figur itt out and i didnt so she was like you dont love me anymore(it was a joke) ndd i was cryin and i told her that and she was likee omfg im so sorry i didnt know youd cry! =/ i was like ok and then today she IMed mee, hey i said heyy whats up she was like nothing at wendys wit 3 ppl (she told me who) but two of them she HATES! and she was also with her sister(younger by like six yrs..) she didnt even invite me! so im upset. this is all happening out of the blue why is she doing this?

Answer 1

she ahbviously THINKS she has a sense of humor, but i call that being rude to some1 you care about!!! sometimes one of my friends will do that and i will have the same reaction as you...but finally i found out that if i just stand up to them and tell them that it hurts my feelings when they talk bad to me and ditch me then they understand. i don't know if this will work with your friend, but try it. You don't want to lose a friend over this!!!

Answer 2

sometimes people just do this kind of thing for attention. i mean my bff and i were talking all cool and then she went to our mutual friends party (which i wasn't invited to either) and he stole her phone and was being a jack ***. so it may not be her. I would try to call, text or I'm her and ask her y she was doing that and then if she continues to be a ***** then find some new people to hang with. obviously she thinks shes too good for you and you don't deserve to be treated like that!

Answer 3

maybe shes just tryin 2 act cool or sumtin. i wood ask her wuts up w/ her n just check how she is. maybe shes havin a hard time wit sumtin or maybe shes jealous of u idk

Answer 4

i know everyone says this but try talking to her if you guys are that close and you care about her and dont want to lose her talk to her and tell her how you feel...