I dont have a specific or designated 'best' friend?

Question

is this strange?

Answer 1

No its not. My best friend died a few years ago and after that I never found another one best friend. I have two best friends and thats cause they both are there for me no matter what and I cant pic just one cause there is no way possible.

Answer 2

That's fine, you dont need to have a "best friend" to me a friend is a friend and i can't really choose which one of my friends would be my best friend and which ones wouldnt.

Answer 3

Not at all ... i have friends, then i have my bestfriends.  I have about 5 bestfriends, out of the 20 friends i have a the 100's of acquaintances.

Answer 4

totally fine... I don't have a "best" friend either... just good friends... perfectly normal

Answer 5

I'm 23 and I don't have one either. You look around and some people have their "besties" and sure it would be nice. But sometimes it's nice not to have all your "eggs in one bucket" so to say. I've had that 1 best friend and we ended up in a fallout that wasn't pretty. So now I have people who are close, who are there when I need them or I'm there when they need me, but no "best friend" per se. And that works out better in some situations.

Answer 6

best friends are over rated.   i had one who just stabbed me in the back totally.  it is better to have a lot of friends that you can lean on when things don't go so great with one of them.  i dont think it is strange.  best wishes, xoxo

Answer 7

Nope, best way 2 have it. Plenty of ppl consider me their best friend. I only consider one gurl  my best friend bcuz I tell her evrythang and i KNO she wont go bak and tell it no matta wat. She knos me betta than anyone

Answer 8

Not at all. I have a bunch of people that I'm really close to. I consider them all to be my really good friends.

Answer 9

I only have people at school I talk to. I don't have a best friend. It's completely normal.

Answer 10

totally fine.  I have a guy bestie, a girl bestie, and my boyfriend.  they are all amazing

its totally fine.  you don't need to give your friends titles or an order. its not myspace--its real life!