I dont kno wat 2 say?

Question

ok my friend was in a wreak last year her lil bro past away its gonna b one year on the 4th and i really don't know wat 2 tell her plz help me because i loved that lil boy so much 2 WEN I SEE PICS of him i wanna cry wat should i do??????

Answer 1

I don't think there is nothing anyone can say to ease the pain. It has always been time - the great healer. Yours silent presence with her and your natural tears shall speak volume. You don't have to say anything, Just be there.  

Answer 2

Aww That made me sad.  Tell her it's going to be ok because it is.  It's just a sad time and you hope she feels better!

Answer 3

he is in heaven!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! that will make her happy!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 4

Even though its hard, you could maybe make a scrapbook with pictures of him if you have pictures of him and give them to her. I know it would be hard for her to see all those pictures and think of her little brother, but I think it would be a way for her to think of him and remember him in a special way. If you can't or don't wanna do that you should write her a letter and in it explain how sorry you are about her loosing her brother but just remind her that even though he is gone, he is still there watching over her and that he will always be with her. Also explain to her how much you loved him too. This will help her understand that she isn't alone in her grievances over him(besides her family and other friends). Yeah, its always hard to comfort people when they loose someone they love. it just is really hard. I think that if you are there for her, she would probably appreciate that more than anything. hope I helped. best of luck

Answer 5

aww. thats too bad. on that day randomly bring up a funny or happy memory of him. try to make her smile. and be there for her. this is obviously even harder for her than it is for you. remember him in a positive light and smile when you think of him instead of crying. deaths are really hard. but think, he's in heaven now so thats good. hope i helped