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ok well my school has this ROTC training before schools starts where we learn the basics and what not so there were higher ranking co's there (commanding officers) and i found one to be so gorgeous and she looked sweet as a button and really nice but i couldn't talk to her because we were doing PT all day and marching and she was off to the side most of the day helping a girl who hurt her knee and i want to know how do i talk to her i mean idk how old she is or what grade i only caught her name no rank but i know she was like 4th in command and her name was melissa and i want to talk to her but i mean i cant in rotc because were always learning or doing Pt so no small talk and I'm sure shes not in my grade in a fresh man and she taught us so I'm like 100% sure shes not so how do i talk to her and maybe date her? please help me

Answer 1

Holy h**l!!!

Your in college to be an OFFICER in the Military!

If you approach her in ANYTHING like the paragraph above, you wouldnt have a chance!

HAVE some confidence!

Take sometime to get to know her!  There will be events, classes, sports, etc to find out more about her.  If she is available, you will get your chance!  

BUT your really going to have to mature to be an officer!  You sounded more like a 14yo than someone that is going to lead enlisted people that are sometimes TWICE Your age in 4 years!