I dont know what if i want the boyfriend i have now?!?

Question

okay. so ive been with my boyfriend going on 2 years know. he just got a new place, and we had plans on moving in with eachother. i know i dont really wanna be with him because all we do is argue, and more things..but we've been together so long that it seems d**n near impossible to leave him? please help me..how can i leave someone after we basically planned our lives around what our future would be! helppp :(

Answer 1

OK...  it is very clear there is a problem here.. what you have to do is take a deep breath, calm down and look at it from a different angle. You have planned your lives around what your future would be, that basically makes it impossible for you to break up with him and also the fact that you have been together 2 years dont help. My adivce to you is, stop for a second and think if this is really what you want? if you really do and there is no chance of you both getting along and dumping him is the only option, then the only and best way to di it is to sit him down, explain to him your side of the situation, ask him what he thinks and try and come to a compromise, if thats not possible then at least he knows he has to move on and life plans have got to change. I am hoping i am of some help.

Answer 2

If its not working now - its not going to work for the rest of your lives.  Two years of planning a future together doesnt mean you're stuck with it.  You've already decided that it is not right for you - now you need to let him know.  

Answer 3

Take your time and think it over, maybe get a friends advice.