I dont know what to do, help.?

Question

I don't even know what's wrong with me.

The past couple of days all i have been doing is crying and stressing out like crazy!

School is coming up in a couple of days, maybe that's why.

but also one thing is my best friend.

She has been hanging out with this one girl, who always becomes best friends with my best friends.

She told me she will never replace me or anything, but it sure seems like she has.

My best friend is like my way of life, if i tell her she will get mad, that's the way she is.

I can't even stop crying, to the point where I want to throw up.

I'm 14, almost 15 and going to be a freshman.

Answer 1

Wow, you need to relax!  Why are you so insecure?  You need to have Friends, and you can have more then 1.  Hang out with everyone, your Friend is not leaving you out, just having fun with other people.  Why don't you do the same?  Is there some reason you can't be going places with the other girl to?  Why does that make you feel like you are being replaced?  Your Friend likes you for a reason, but people like to be around Happy people who like to have fun!  Quit over thinking it and just enjoy your youth.  You will love the 9th grade, High School goes by so fast, don't waste your time worrying about such petty things.  xox  

Answer 2

Hay, I'm Going To Be A Freshman To Next Year To And I Know How You Feel. My Best Friend Dose That Too And I Know You Don't Wan't To Tell Her But Mabey You Should I Did And He Understood. Keep Your Cin Up.

Answer 3

wwwwwtf.

this is happening to me.

every word down to the period.

woah,

life is crazy.

the world reallly is small.

Well.. your going to be a freshman,, so i am imaginnig that you are going to meet lots of other new people.

and yeah.

so that should set cha' up.

She doesn't sound like a very good friend.

Answer 4

maybe you depressed

you should find someone to talk to about someone who will have your back no matter what^^

don't worry crying is a way to relieve stress and pain every thing will be fine just keep going

Answer 5

Hey dude just be cool yaar,you are just15 you have a lot of days coming all the way packed up with new friends,new affections,new thoughts,and new cheers of life,don't get upset,at this tender age,don't hurt your eyes by crying so much just wipe your tears and look to the coming life

          don't be childish,develop strength in yourself so that you could be ready to accept anything in life,you must have courage to courage to face life and a little LOVE to boost it up just keep going

            YOU ARE THE BEST FRIEND ANYONE COULD EVER HAVE        

Answer 6

sweatie dont worry. its ok to cry but it will be ok. your best friend will stick by your side no matter what. school brings nerves too. youll find lots of frinds in high school. ill be praying for you

Answer 7

be strong. learn how to be happy on your own. try not to let others disappoint you.

talk to your parents and get advice from them.  

Answer 8

Try to relax.  Go out and do something you find soothing with out your friend.  Read, watch a movie, spend time with your mom, she would really like that.

Volunteer with those who truly have no one.  Wash windows at your house, make a new cd, pick out your outfits and coordinate to a tee for the first week of school.  Organize your notebooks by period,  plan your outfit and hair for picture day.  Try different make up and hair dos.  This is the best time to try them out around the house.  Think about  a date for Sadie's dance, homecoming, all those come up right away when school starts,  Consider joining the pep squad, or another school activity.

Focus on you.....  you must  be very special for someone to run behind you and try to become friends with your friends, you must have very good judge of character, and personalities.  Remember this, no matter what friends she tries to have around her she can never be you, she wants something you have, it must be very frustrating for her to want something  she will never be.....YOU!!

Don't give her the satisfaction of thinking she's taken something from you.  Friends aren't owned, they are there to share, and the more the merrier sometimes.  You'll make more.  New School year new students, new friends.  Trust yourself, something I sense in your question really says you are quite a likable little lady, and it's easy for you to make friends.  you know what else, this is when school really matters so focus a lot on studying this year too.  

I see many good things happening for you, but you have to too.