I dont know what to do.. Please Help me?

Question

ok.. where to start.. december 2007.. on the 21st of December my fiance proposed to me, the next day was my 21st birthday.. so we drove 3.5 hrs away so we could spend a few days with my family for christmas.. the whole time i was there they treated me like i was 5, i did all the cleaning and washing etc even though i was a guest. they had me in tears because of what they said a few times. Then in February was my grandparents anniversary, we had just paid bond on a house and couldnt afford the fuel, accommodation and food etc to go to it, so we told them in advance we couldnt make it and apologised. ever since then they have been rude.. i am getting married in 2 weeks and having a baby in 4 months. yet they dont we are important enough and dont want anything to do with the wedding & baby because we couldnt make it to their anniversary. now i am getting abused about it by my parents and sister, yet i have done nothing wrong. i have tried apologising even though i dont need to. :o(

Answer 1

There really is not much that you can do. give them time. I am sure that they will realize that they are overreacting and come running to see there new baby great grandchild

Answer 2

Honey.....

I sure would like to se the OTHER side of this story...

Answer 3

just give them time and u might wanna mAKE THE TRIP TO THEM TO SAY SORRY TELL THEM YOUR FAMILY AND THEY NEED TO UNDERSTAND

  

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Answer 4

Call off the wedding..........if this is what his family expects, it's likely that it's what he expects too.

There's still time.........run!

Luck

Answer 5

Well, okay, i really hope this helps. I don't think they deserve to be part of your wedding and be a part of the baby's life if they are going to treat you like this. With that in mind do you really still want them to interfear with your happyness.

and i noticed you said you tried appoligizeing, im happy you did that, and even if it doesnt seem so that means alot, if you really mean it. If they arent willing to accept that then they are not someone you would want in your childs life. Theres always that chance they wont be forgiving to your child when he or she makes a mastaike, and you dont want to have any slight chance that may rub off on them.

i hope i helped!

good bless you and your family!

congrats on the baby may he or she live a happy, long life.

good luck!

-Morgan