I dont know what to do about this...?

Question

Me and my fiance just broke up yesterday. She told me she was with another guy while we were dating. She told me this after we broke up. I asked her if she is really with him and she gave me the response... why does it matter. She texted me at 12:30 this morning telling me she was sorry for everything she said. And that she was still in love with me. I don't know what to do. Should I just give up on her or continue to pursue her. I love her to death and don't want anyone else. I just need to know what to do. She still wants to be friends. Would that be best.

Answer 1

well,sir,i think u should get ur women back n marry her asap if ur in love with her so you two can be togther 4ever w/as a happii family thats what i would do

good luck

Answer 2

Possibly, but it might lead to some relationship problems in the friendship that occasionally happen with ex-lovers.  And since she was your ex-fiance it might be a little awkward to pursue her since the relationship won't be the same and have as much meaning to her.

She gave up on you, by saying a possible lie.  Does that sound like good base for a relationship?

Answer 3

sounds like she might have some problems of her own to figure out, and shes dragging you into them.

i'd say maybe take some time away from each other, but "friends" probably isn't going to work if you love her like you do.

but love is love, so dont let her go, the Bible says to forgive everyone.

here's a song i love that kind of applies:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSrt-Inyo...  

Answer 4

My boyfriend did that to me only we weren't engaged but i got back with him i thought it was  a mistake n we just got back together so i'm just waiting for it to happen again hoping it wont'

but i can say one thing

always worring its goning to happen again doesn't make the new relationship any better lol

Answer 5

WELL, HUN WE ALL SAY THINGS OUT OF ANGER AN MAYBE THAT'S WHY SHE SAID IT! ASK HER? IF THAT'S THE CASE THEN MY ADVICE WOULD TO BE TELL HER WHAT YOU JUST TOLD US AN TRY AN WORK THINGS OUT!! BUT, IF IT'S TRUE AN SHE WAS WITH ANOTHER GUY I'D SAY MOVE ON AN FORGET HER BECAUSE ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER!! BUT, THIS CHOICE IS TOTALLY YOURS!! I'M WISHING YOU THE BEST HUN!! I HOPE I HELPED AN IF YOU HAVE ANYOTHER ? FEEL FREE TO EMAIL THEM TO ME AN I'LL HELP THE BEST I CAN!! GOOD LUCK HUN!!

Answer 6

I don't think that "just friends" ever works when someone has dumped you.  At least that is my experience.  It just drags out the pain and prolongs the time it takes to get back into the game of life (so to speak)

Learn by my mistakes and break it off clean and start to get on with your life.  I know you are hurting right now but sit yourself down and ask yourself   Do you not deserve someone who isn't deceitful and going out behind your back

You have got to love yourself more than that!

Answer 7

Be friends with her!!!

Answer 8

******CHEATERS ARE LAME!!!!!!, BUT IF YOU LOVE HER MAYBE YOU SHOULD GIVE HER A LAST  CHANCE. BUT KEEP YOUR GUARD UP. ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER, ALSO SOUNDS LIKE SOME HONESTY ISSUES .