I dont know what to do am so SCARED please help me ?

Question

Ok so I am type 1 daibetic and I am 10 wks pregnant....I have had two miscarriages before 1 was due to my diabeties and 1 was unknown ok so my thing is today I went to the clinic and my doc had a talk with me she said my pregnancy loked great as of right now but I am in a really high risk pregnancy and that my humoglobin levels were bad she talked to me saying that anything can happen she cant tell me evrything will be find cuz anything can happen the day of tomorrow that I can still stop my pregnancy because am a high risk but she said you still can go on but like I said anything can happen you do hae diabeties and its really risking for both of you we heard the heart beat and it sounds perfect but I am really scared of what is goin to happen can anyone help me.....Am not goin to stop my pregnancy for any reason at all god will do what he wants and I love my baby and I cant can someone help .........................

Answer 1

Like you said, it is in God's hands. now. Think real positively. stress is bad , as you know. You have had 2 miscarraiges before, but this may be the pregnancy that comes through! My sister had the same situation you had, and she has 2 healthy boys now. :o)

You have every right to be scared, but practice some meditation, deep breathing, anything to calm your self. Keep concentrating on that wonderful heartbeat you heard! Good luck!

Answer 2

Well one thing I can say. I know its hard but dont STRESS to much. Cuz stress can cause you to miscarry. So stay postitive and keep looking on. Good luck, Hope all goes well.

Answer 3

I think you're making a good choice leaving it up to God. My aunt had a doctor tell her that her or the baby would die if she continued her pregnancy but she didn't listen to the doctor and her baby is now healthy and 30 years old. If you're supposed to have the baby then you'll have the baby. I hope everything works out.

Answer 4

The only thing you can do is give your baby a fighting chance by doing everything right and taking your diet seriously.  Also stressing out does not help your pregnancy.  You need to practice some stress relief techniques.  Try some meditation and breathing.  Also, keep praying.  If this baby is meant to be then it will be.  You cannot force the issue.  The only thing you can do is be as healthy as possible even though you have diabetes.  Be realistic, but optimistic.  You will be ok.

Answer 5

It sounds to me like your doctor is trying to pressure you into aborting.  Am I misunderstanding?  If I were in your shoes, I would be calling around looking for an ob who is experienced in working with extremely high risk pregnancies and/or pregnancy with women who have type 1 diabetes.  If my doctor was sounding as panicky and worried about treating me as yours is, I'd be concerned about her ability to take care of me and my baby.  You are right to say that what's going to happen is going to happen, but you should do everything in your power to get the best care for your self and that baby, too.  I wish you the best with your pregnancy!

Answer 6

PRAY UNTIL SOMETHING HAPPENS

Answer 7

God gave you this chance to bring another life into this world for a reason. Maybe the last two pregnancy he thought that something in your life wasnt right maybe he wasnt ready for you to have a baby. But now he has blessed you maybe for the last time. I dont know what it is like to have diabeties but that can be scary but if it was me you know I would have to go through with it. You only have one chance and its like a chance in a lifetime to have a baby because there are some women that arent as lucky as you... I would do everything right and do little as possible work wise. I would never try to over do it and watch what you eat. I believe he is going to give you and your baby a healthy life together. So good luck and best wishes.

Answer 8

u can anly try  to control ur diabetes as much as possible. don't stress, have a healthy diet (very important). and check up often of course. Good luck.

Answer 9

I have a friend who had three babies and she is a brittle diabetic. She ended up having to be hospitalized for about a month before the babies were born but they were born healthy. Hope you have the same outcome.

Answer 10

Just wanna say good luck.

Answer 11

To be honest I don't know what you want us to say...there's really nothing I can say...I wish you the best of luck though...just take it one day at a time.

Answer 12

Punctuate much?  Your question is kinda hard to read.