I dont know what to do anymore, i'm confused, HELP!!!?

Question

hi, i'm currently going out with this girl that i really care about, we have going out for sometime.... she was my first, but i wasn't hers and i don't know but i feel kind of depressed when I'm thinking about that,... why is that? is it because she wasn't a virgin? or because i want to experience with other women? i really like her but is making my life depressed for some reason

Answer 1

Its probably just jealousy and doubt in your ownself. Remember, she is with you now and you're the only one she is sleeping with. What happened in the past stays in the past and as long as she doesn't keep bringing it up eventually you just have to be mature enough to look past that. Though it may be hard its best for your relationship.

Remember that you have no need to be jealous of people that are gone from her life. And there's no need to second guess your own ability as she's with you for a reason.  

Answer 2

I think your depressed because you made the choice to give up your virginity to this girl, but she made that decision well before you came along. You've shared something with her that she has already given away, and you wanted it to be yours. You wanted to have this special bond, but it just can't be.

There is only one thing you can do. Get over it. If you really care about her, and you really like her, then you have to respect the fact that she had a life before you, and made the decision to have s*x with a guy(s) before you.  

Answer 3

kick back dog whatever you do don't ask; who, what,where,when ,or why and you'll be set.  but seriously my lady was married before me and her went out, and well she divorced that foo for me and well i never asked those questions and also don't let it bother you all you need to worry about is giving her the big "O" and I tell you she'll treat you like a god.

Answer 4

this is very normal to feel this way. it is a fact that teenagers become more depressed after sexual intercourse. it is a very special bond that you will never forget. I know that you wanted to be her first too and that is part of what is making you sad. I'm sorry that she wasn't. It will take some time to get past this, but it will pass in time.  

Answer 5

U wanna experience with other women.

Move On and enjoy!!

Answer 6

well i think that you are a bit jealous & you msut not think about it any more

just enjoy your time you have with her