I dont know what to do anymore

Question

well umm....im 15 and im just like very depressed

i dont know what to do

i mean i cut myself i know its bad

i have this feeling im going to end killing my self soon

im just very confused on everything

i feel like im all alone and like no one cares about me

:''''(

what should i do

and for help i dont know how to tell somone i need help i tried but it was just really hard

please im deperate

Answer 1

Hey my name is ashley i just want to tell you dont be depresed ok when ur 15 life just seems soooo hard and like ur all alone and no one will ever listin to you no matter how loud u scream i know i have been there. Like ur in a room by ur self when the room is full. Right now i know ur agreeing with me. What ever u do cut ur self stop now there is always something out htere for u ok im not just saying that im not a doctor ok i have been in ur shoes ok things are so confusing in ur life right now all i can say is if u ever need someone to talk to u can always email me ok ly email addy is [e-mail] or if u have yahoo messenger add me as a friend ok im always willing to make new friends and help out anyine who needs it just smile and keep ur head up hunny ok things do get better email me or add me ok by the way if i did not mention my name is ashley!!!!!

Answer 2

  I know how you feel. Ive had problems like that, Me personally, I turn to my music. It either explains what Im thinking, makes it worse, or cheers me up. But eventually, I got help for my emotional problems, my dad calls it.  I He also calls it a meltdown. But anyways, If I were you, and if you dont already, you should try listening to more music, and you could also get a hobbie. Other than destruction to yourself. Maybe try creative writing, sometimes putting your thoughts into paper can help. Maybe talk to your friends and see what they can do. If you also want you can talk to your parents, if not, you could talk to your friends parents. Of course I'm just putting things down of what I do.

You should try doing something exciting, try something that would take up sometime to do and at the end you get the feeling you've accomplished something.  

  For the confusing you could ask questions on what your confused about, and try your best to get what might be the closest thing to what seems like the right answer.

   Your definatly not alone, there are people out there who care. To prove that maybe try going to church, if you dont already, if you dont then it might confuse you even more.

Also for the getting help part, because your over the age 12 you can talk to people and get help without anyone knowing, the people you may talk to wont tell your parents anything unless you want them to. They dont make fun of you for what might be wrong and they really help. I dont know the number though.

  Cutting yourself is bad, so you really need to get a hobbie. Maybe gather up some friends and go to a movie or anything like that. There are some pretty cool movies for teenagers like you.

  By the way, if your parents arnt helping with what your having trouble with, then they are underestamating you. I think that alot of the problems teenagers have today comes from their parents. Maybe its pressure, or maybe its the fact that the parents dont believe in their child/teen/tween whatever.

In the end I hope this helped and and maybe another thing you should do is try believing in yourself more. Maybe your confused because your confidence level is low. Like low self-esteem , and another thing that shows low confidence level is that you seem to think that no one cares, I knew a girl that thought no one cared because she couldnt do anything to impress them. In the end, she had really bad Hygene and had problems in school, because the parents werent there for her.

I really hoped this helped.

Answer 3

What is causing your depression? you need to get to the bottom of what is causing these feelings for you.  There is varieties of people going through this type of thing. It's very common in teens because of all the peer pressure we are expected to face,and how to deal with making our parents happy, you name it. Another thing i'd like to point out is there is always going to be someone out there who cares for you, and if your planning suicide, you are hurting the people you care. You wouldn't want that right? In the mean time, if you don't know why you are feeling this way, or if you do and don't seem to know how to deal with it, go seek professional help immediately!

Answer 4

I was just like you when I was your age and I am 28 now. Believe me, you will out grow it, the more you learn about life the better you'll feel. Think of life as a school and each day you are learning new things.

I know life is very confusing and hard to understand, I still feel this way to this day sometimes but as you get older you will find that it get's easier the more you learn the more resilient and accepting of life's challenges you are the more you'll be able to cope.

Please don't give up now, your to young, you have your whole life ahead of you it would be a shame for you to end it now.

And I used to cut myself just like and I have attempted suicide several times in the past but you know what I am glad that I didn't kill myself because now I have learnt what we live for, have had many great, S****y, memerable, happy, sad moments in life what life hands you and I wouldn't take it back for the world.

I used to live in a shelter had to eat from the food bank have been abused etc, and I am still here.

And I used to feel like no one cares about me too but, you are always cared for by god, higher power. Trust me, everyone on this planet is cared for. I found spirituality through the realy hard times and it saved me.

Find what spirit or god helps you and never give up faith. They are watching over you and are their for you every second of the day. Even though you don't see them they are their.

You are loved just like everybody else on this planet. And your not alone, you have yourself the most important person in the world. Learn to love and respect yourself and later you'll learn that that's all we can really count on because nothing else is guarenteed in life unfortunately.

Sending you big hugs and kisses, i'll pray for you