I dont know what to do?! party help? im 13 and this is a "real" party im invited to...

Question

ok so today i got invited to a boy girl party and there will be no parents and beer. lots of it. i want to go what are the dangers if i only drink alittle? not even one drink.

Answer 1

Dont go unless you want to be date raped

Answer 2

its not worth it....you can have fun without drinking call your parents if you start to feel uncomfortable I'm sure they would rather come pick you up then have you go home with someone whos been drinking

Answer 3

-one of your idiot friends could get really wasted and get you guys busted.

-there might only be a bit of beer so you wont have any fun

-you yourself might get really wasted and get caught

__ but if you are smart about things you won't get caught, so have fun and just dont over do it cause then it's not as fun.

Answer 4

Wow, the age for drinking is getting younger and younger. I don't think that you should go, really. The fact that you're putting effort in and asking for help about it means that you're doubting it; that shows that you're not ready for a party like this.

You could most definitely be caught; word could get out and your party could be busted. You don't want to lose the trust of your parents at this young age -- trust me, it will haunt you through your high school years, and your parents will let it hang over your head.

Another question -- who invited you? A close friend, someone you trust? If you don't trust these people, you shouldn't be going.

Also, when 13 year olds get together to drink, that always spells d-i-s-a-s-t-e-r. Because it's a first-time experience for most of them, even after one drink, they'll try to "act drunk", even if they're not. Or, what happens if someone drinks too much, gets sick, or even gets alcohol poisoning? Drinking can be dangerous.

Go out with some friends instead, that will probably be a lot more fun. Just trust me -- and everyone else who's responded so far! Besides, there will be many more parties in the future, and you'll know when you're ready to tackle one of them.

Answer 5

Well - sweetheart - I hope your real danger is found in the fear of your old  man.....   Asking for trouble and I know what I am talking about as I have been there done that  AND got caught and in dyno-mite trouble ...  was absolutely NOT worth the trip around that block

Stay on the straight and narrow...  is a harder road to follow but there is a pot of gold at the end.

Good Luck

Hotttttttt  dogggggg

Answer 6

I don't know you personally, so Idk if you're mature for your age, but if I were you I wouldn't go.

Actually I would go, but that's because when I was 13 I didn't know any better. People get crazy, violent, physical, sexual, all kinds of silly ways when they're drunk. If police are called you can be busted for Curfew and Consumption of alcohol.

Don't do it until you're a bit older =) you'll have tonssss of other parties, trust me.

Answer 7

Don't go, you're too young.

You will get taken advantage of and well it's not fun. DO NOT GO!

Seriously wait until you're at least 16 to be going to parties. They are dangerous.

Answer 8

ummmm BEER! dude like no parent's! DO NOT GO I REPEAT DO NOT GO!I guess you could go but do your parents approve and if you are going then rule one.NO DRINKING NO ACCEPTIONS! rule two.NO HAVING S*X YET! rule three.TRYING STAYING CLOSE TO PEOPLE YOU KNOW OR ARE IN YOUR AGE GROUP! aand lastly NO SLAPPING AT ALL!:)

Answer 9

for real, i have been to those parties. i wouldnt go. plus it could get busted and you would get in huge trouble

Answer 10

I know you don't want to hear this but, at 13 your really too young to drink. besides beer is an acquired taste, you may not like it. Can you have a good time without drinking? I hate to be a "party pooper" but at your age even one beer may affect your judgment and you might do something you'll regret. I don't have the answers for you, you'll need to decide for yourself what to do. Try hanging with the kids who are not drinking at this party and I bet you'll still have fun. Besides if you stay sober just think of all the fun you'll have cracking up at the drunks!! Hope this helps, chef paul

Answer 11

Don't go. Enough said. No good comes of parties like this when you're 13. Save it for when you're of legal age!

By the way, beer is disgusting anyway.

Answer 12

i would advise you not to go but if you do don't drink you can still have fun without drinking  

Answer 13

ummm if the peoples there are your same age then go.

and i advise dont dirnk beer.

if people make fun of you just say

so?

if they arnt your age...

forget bout it.

:)

good luck

and hope you make the right choices!!

:)

Answer 14

I wouldn't go at all. I've been invited to  parties like that when I was in middle school and I just made up excuses not to go. Or just straight out told them that I wasn't going. <This girl who sat next to me, a long time ago in middle school, invited me to parties like that. I turned down the invitations...and was glad. At one of her parties, she got busted by the cops and were running from them. Another time she got really drunk.>

If you drink a little, you might get addicted to it...but it depends if you like it or not. Either way, I think u are way too young to be taste testing alcoholic beverages.

Answer 15

I wish I could call your parents.

Answer 16

you guys are too young to have those parties.

go eat some candy..or watch sesame street.

Answer 17

I say go!  It is totally possible to go to a party and not drink and have lots of fun.  I mean watching all of your friends waisted and acting like a fool is tons of fun/black mail for later.  Drinking one beer or 2 wont kill you but 6 on up might.  Just dont get in the car with anyone drinking or you think may have been drinking.  Have FUN!

Answer 18

Don't go.I'm in High School, sure I'm not really into those finds of things.

BUT when we have a soiree, and this is planned by us, we always have to know who is coming, absolutely NO ALCOHOL and there has to be at least one parent...usually there are more than 1 parent present. I wouldn't feel safe if there was both alcohol and no parent supervision.

In the end it's your choice...but I think you shouldn't be going to these things at your age.I didn't when I was 13.

Answer 19

i say go and do what your instints tell you... you will learn for your mistakes i went to a party and drank ALOT i was druged and had to be rushed to the emergency room at 2 am with two drunk guys driving the car!

Answer 20

You do have options. I am 14 turning 15 so I'm not gonna ***** just give straight up options.

-Go, don't drink.

-Go, drink a little

-Go, drink wuhtever the h**l you're comfortable with.

-Don't go, because you're uncomfortable with the beer.

-Don't go, do something else

-Don't go, because you don't want to..!!

I ,myself, am disgusted with beer so I'm never tempted to drink it because at the age of 5 I was curious and took a sip from my uncle. Worste tasting thing since p**s to me..!!!

Answer 21

It depends how sensible you are and your friends that will be there.  Can you trust them if they get drunk?  Can you trust yourself?  If not I wouldn't go if I was you, because you will be very sorry afterwards.  

If you can trust yourself and them go, have a good time, but watch your alchol intake.  Just remember they might think it's cool to drink, but really a drunk young lady isn't, nor she is cool when she is off her face.  People don't forget what ladies do! Remember that!!!!!!

Your decision! Think hard and decide.  Remember it's your life and your body and you need to take care of your body to have a good life in it.  Food for thought!!!  No one can make or should make  you do anything you don't want###  

Answer 22

ohmigosh....i would never go!!!!!! it's not even worth it if there's beer!

it will lead to horrible stuff!!!! please do yourself a favor and don't go!