I dont know what to do! please help?

Question

i went to a club with some friends and we all got a little drunk. anyway, during the course of the night one of my friends was flirting with me among other things.... well, i dont know if i should just write it off as drunkeness or pursue it. im afraid he may have been just drunk and then ill look stupid if i say something about it or pursue it farther... what would you do?

Answer 1

don't jump into conclusions. weigh things over. maybe there's an explanation to the behavior of your friend. maybe he's into you that he can't say what he really feels without the effect of the alcohol, maybe through alcohol he could gather up his guts and flirt with you, make you feel that he's really into you. but talk about right timing! if he's really that "into you" you can test that after he sobered up. he should treat you or even look at you in a different perspective now. let him pursue you without the alcohol in his system. good luck :)

Answer 2

Hello.  You did not say it in your email but my feeling is that you actually like this friend of yours.

First things first.  Be careful.  A guy who is drunk may just be messing around, and you can get hurt if you read too much into it.

That being said.

Guys can be a little dense when it comes to if a girl likes him or not; sometimes you have to beat him over the head with it.

So.

If you do like him.  Maybe you can talk to him alone, so you can get his feedback without the commentary.  You can open with: do you remember what happened at the party the other day?

Depending on what he says, and if he remembers, you can say something like, you were so crazy, you did this, you did that.

Take it from there.

And if I may be blunt, guys do not really have much of a "friend zone".    So if you are friends with him, and he already chooses to spend time with you, there is a really good chance that he would be receptive to more.

So chin up, the world is bright and good.  Talk to the man.  Then let him know how you feel!

Answer 3

Yeah. Just like the one below me said. Ignore it, and if her continues to do it non drunk, it's love. :D

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Answer 4

Write it off as drunkenness.

Some guys are usually uncontrollably 'flirty' when they drink.

Give him a chance to pursue you when there is no alcohol involved and then see where that goes.

At least both of you will be in a clear state of mind to determine things.

Hope this helped.

Answer 5

he was drunk. if HE was serious (& sometimes drunks remember what they say) he'll bring it up. dont pursue it

Answer 6

just ignore and see if they say anything first

Answer 7

Definitely let it go.  You don't want to embarrass anyone.  If there is something "there" then he will let you know when he is sober.  

Answer 8

just wait if he shows sing that hje does like you after he is no longer intoxicated by alcahol

Answer 9

Someday your going to get drunk and do something real stupid and embarrassing and your going to wish to God that everyone didn't know about it. It's a fact of life when your running around getting drunk. This is one of those occasions that speaks loud and clear stupid drunk incident. Good luck

Answer 10

Just let it be, and see if anything happens while you're both sober.